Is a man’s confidence considered more attractive or creepy when approaching women?

[ForsakenQuill]

Attractive

Creepy

[MisterWack]

Depends on how that confidence comes across.
If she insists, “I’m not interested” or “I have a boyfriend” or “I’m busy that day” and the guy doesn’t take no for an answer…. She 100% is going to see this as a creep douchebag move.

[ForsakenQuill]

True but what about the women who become upset or angered when those men don’t persist?

[MisterWack]

@forsakenquill If it turns out to be that woman then do it, though if she is completely turned off and dropping ‘not so subtle’ hints then it might be best to just….. Not.

I wasn’t playing hard to get with a girl who kept coming onto me when I would reiterate, “We’re Are Friends.”(in a not so subtle way of it being “Back Off!”)

[ForsakenQuill]

How would you know? You confidently approach a woman and strike up conversation attempting to give her your number for example. She rejects you, you don’t want to be the creep so you leave and she becomes angry.

[MisterWack]

@forsakenquill I think you are moving the goal post. “Oh you don’t get B*tches…. You don’t know…. You never even talked to a woman”.
Therefore when I answer you honestly you’ll just go “Oh Actually What I Meant Was….”
I’m stopping it here, bye.

[ForsakenQuill]

🤷🏻‍♂️ thought we were having a discussion but clearly your afraid to do so

[MisterWack]

@forsakenquill I called it! OMG! I should’ve wrote it down. Yeah “we were just having a discussion. Don’t leave me bro” Yeah we are most certainly done here. Haha

[Anonymous]

Depends how attractive the man is to begin with. Confidence is almost always considered attractive. But if she thinks the guys ugly, or if she just isn't interested atm, for whatever reason. Then all the confidence in the world isn't going to matter and can be considered creepy.

[Nikki1989]

Confidence is attractive in anyone, not just men. Confidence lets you go places in life. Having NO confidence will only drag you down.

[ForsakenQuill]

I’ve been told that too much confidence can come across as creepy or rapey?

[MisterWack]

@forsakenquill 🙄, Not saying confidence is bad. Saying not knowing when to quit is bad. Never even said the word “rapey” or “rape”.
It is like you read between the lines when the lines are so neatly drawn out my dude. This isn’t a college essay that takes all night to figure out the point of, it is an easy digestable piece of slop.

[ForsakenQuill]

So you’re saying just don’t try?

[Yannae]

Attractive. Just don't let it spill over into arrogance.

[paledreams]

100 percent creepy 😅

[Anonymous]

Creepy if unattractive. Attractive if Attractive

[LiamJHayden]

Confidence, not arrogance, is attractive.

[Iron_Man]

Be cool be nice be Genuine