Are my male coworkers flirting with my new friend just to make me jealous?

[Anonymous]

Those are the two I tried pushing away, and now I see both especially the other one be charring to her and everything you think they doing that intentionally bc one of the guys commented to her how I’ll be jealous that he stalking her away from etc she told me that personally anyways am I overthinking?

[HollyK21]

I don’t think they’re serious about either of you, or trying to make you jealous. They just flirt out of convenience, also she’s a new face, and most likely a moderately attractive woman so she has their attention for now. I wouldn’t think twice about it, this is their nature. Not every man of course, but these ones.

[Asker]

Right

[Anonymous]

They probably are, but why do you care? You pushed them away.

[Asker]

Not exactly pushed away but I didn’t really care much to talk too

[Opinion Owner]

So why do you care now?

[Asker]

Bc I also feel like they trying to steal my friend

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok. Is she falling for it?

[Asker]

Noo !!

[Asker]

She even tells me what they be talking to her about

[Opinion Owner]

Then don’t worry about it. They are trying to steal her, but she’s not gonna listen.

[Asker]

Why they doing that?

[Asker]

Like they clearly didn’t care when she first came until I clicked with her and became friends

[Opinion Owner]

To make you jealous. And if she falls for it they wouldn’t mind hooking up with her.

[Asker]

They married

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter. Married guys wil still hook up if they can.

[Asker]

Yea yea but add be saying they talk about food or he brings up his wife anyways like im saying when she first came no one was concerned until I be she close to her

[Asker]

And one if them keep making random glances at me from distance

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know. Good luck. Don’t flip. These guys don’t mean shit.

[Opinion Owner]

He’d love to hook up with you too. Guys are pigs. A lot of them at least. Not all.

[Asker]

I
Know but what’s there problem

[molonski2]

Why would you possibly care if you don't want them?

Maybe overthinking.

[Asker]

Maybe but I just noticed that now they talking to my friend like hellloo

[molonski2]

So what? It's a free country.

[Caurav1997]

Why you get jealous?

[Asker]

No just wondering

[Caurav1997]

Yes babe its old tricks

[Asker]

Wym
Old tricks?

[Caurav1997]

Guys use this tricks to get attention from girls lol.

[Asker]

So what ru trying to say here?

[Caurav1997]

Pm me

[Asker]

U can’t just say it here. Lol

[Caurav1997]

I want you in pm