Guys has a girl ever asked you out? Girls have you ever asked a guy out?

[xLuana]

I've asked guys out a lot before ^^ have any of you guys been asked out by a girl and have any of you girls ever asked a guy out? and how often? ^^

Also if you feel like answering, how did the date go ^^? Where was the date to and how was that decided ^^? Who paid for what and how was that decided? Did it turn into a relationship and how long did it last (if it isn't still going) and how healthy is it? ^^ I'm curious ^_^

A lot of times

Yes, at least once

Yes, but I rejected her / he rejected me at least once

No, never

No, I don't believe girls should ask guys out

Updates

+1 y

I wonder what LOSERS said that girls aren't allowed to ask guys out

[Airlines22]

I had never asked a guy out, well just for a friendly date kind of thing! We went on a few such as our school track meets, he comes to all my swim meets, and just a drive around the communties! It went wonderful some we held hands and he go beyond the touch barrier sometimes flirt a bit! We decide usually by 50/50 since we care about others opinions! Mainly, I pay but he always shares for what he gets then pays me back! The relationship is still best friends, but it is the best one I had and I do feel that someday we will be more! It is a healthy situation! I would LOVE to ask him out, although I am nervous, too, and I don't want to risk losing this friendship plus he might have a girlfriend! Even though, we flirt constantly, smile all the time at each other, blush a lot too, and our eyes start to sparkle a lot more around each other as if we were meant to be more! Both of our siblings, believe that we will get married someday and our parents like us! For example, his mom always talks about how cute I am! Since you said you have asked guys out a lot before, what can I do?

[wrenlgr]

yeah, kind of. So my best friend and a guy friend of hers and I were going to go see a movie. I didn't know until the day of that they were becoming a couple, so I looked for someone to go with me to relieve any "third wheel" tension. I asked the guy I thought was really cute, but asked him as a friend even though it was in the form of a double date. We went to the movie (each paid for our own) and then the four of us walked around Toys'R'Us and played with toys XD It was so much fun and it eventually turned into a relationship (after a lot of crap was cleared up with his ex and we actually allowed ourselves to like each other completely) when I asked him if he was interested in trying one. We're still together after our initial movie date in the spring of 2010 and are doing fantastically (very healthy, totally honest, and we took it slowly, becoming good friends first) :)

[ThenThereWas1]

I've asked out every guy I've gone out with except one. I haven't been rejected so far. I don't fear rejection--even if they said no, so what? That's the worse that can happen.

[xLuana]

I've been rejected in nasty ways before but... if you like someone its just something you have to risk... if I had a crush on a guy I wouldn't expect him to do the work, that would just be lazy

[ThenThereWas1]

That's really of sh*tty of them to be mean about it! Jeez, all you have to say is "no thank you, but I'm flattered you asked." If someone rejected me like that I'd be glad they said no. So sorry you experienced that :/ But you're right...if you really like someone enough, they're worth the risk.

[MrNameless]

You're too awesome.

[ThenThereWas1]

Thanks for the ego boost ;-)

[Billlewis]

Somehow, it's hard to imagine any guy not wanting to go out with you;)

[Phoenix1991]

yeah, a few girls before, but some were attractive and cool, while others were not. I don't get much people flirting with me or I rarely notice or pay attention. (I think its the first one.) I dated one girl who asked me out numerous times in the past but I never liked her like that to begin with. So a 4 years later, she asks me out again so I decided to give her a shot, it seemed okay for awhile. BUT the relationship only lasted 2 weeks because I found out she was flirting with my best friend.

on a side note, I don't really go on dates that much unless its my girlfriend of a month at least, judge me if you want but its a recession and sh*t isn't cheap =O

[xLuana]

But if she asked you out shouldn't she pay? Or at least go half?

[Phoenix1991]

doesn't matter who asked who out, it depends on the person, I would suggest to pay half half to be fair but it doesn't really matter.

[xLuana]

Well yeah going half is best but some people just don't accept that - so until there comes a day when everyone agrees to go half, then the one who asks should be the one who's "expected" to pay

[Phoenix1991]

eh, that's why I never ask anyone out unless I really like them.

[xLuana]

Well... I don't see why anyone would ask someone out if they don't really like them

[Phoenix1991]

true, but what I mean by that is I'm already in a relationship with them, I like stability and insurance.

[xLuana]

Most people agree to split when they're already in a relationship

[MrNameless]

i haven't had girls directly ask me out on a date, but have had at least 3(I think), hinted about hanging out with me. And by hint, it's, "Hey, are you doing anything on Friday/Sat?" or "What are you doing today?"

I have yet to have a girl actually make a plan and be straight forward on hanging out with her. >_>

[sikoo31]

oddly enough, most girls I've been involved with have initiated it.

my ex told me she liked me before I told her I liked her.

girls on this site flirt with me before I start flirting with them.

even when I was younger, girls would ask me if I liked them cause they liked me.

but for those girls that have done something about it, there's at least 5 girls that didn't.

[BluefireJon]

It's time for me to control my romantic destiny. All of the girls I have been involved with have initiated. I am very gun shy when it comes to pulling the trigger with women. But it's time to put that behind me! There have been plenty of great women who showed a lot of interest but waited on me to go the extra step (which I would not), that I let slip by. Meanwhile the more attractive/outgoing ones do go the extra step and I say yes.

[Honest-Matt]

I was asked out by a midget once, wasn't really sure what to make of it, had anxiety issues so I blew her off, feel like a jerk for not giving her a chance because she was nice, but hey, w/e.

I always support the idea of both ways asking each out. It increases your odds and their odds of getting together.

[mike5150]

I had a girl ask me out before. I went on a few dates with her and thought she was pretty nice and then I found out she was married and I was just kind of a way out from her marriage so I stopped talking to her. Should of known a girl wouldn't want to date me unless she had alterior motive :(

[ambershere]

i have a few times..usually I am bravest when we have been flirting and stuff..and he not sure if he should ask me out..i do the asking..but the second date he has to ask me out(if there is a second date)

[xLuana]

Well to me it should be whoever feels like it first, I don't relate it with what reproductive organs we have

[SlicedMango]

Well from what I know girls can be shy too. But I usually don't initiate with these kinds of things. I usually run the fear of her dating someone already or her partner wasn't with her at the moment it's hard to tell.

So nope, I got hit once by a girl in high school. that was about it we were in completely different classes and we hung out in different crowds lol.

But if a girl does ask me out I'll be happy to comply. :)

[Kladdpapper]

I have asked guys out more than guy's have asked me out. :)

[xLuana]

Same here ^_^

[xLuana]

Well actually a guy has never asked me out before, but I've still had perfectly healthy relationships when I asked the guy out

[Eiffelgirl21]

I have asked a few guys out..including my current boyfriend..haha who rejected me at first..then I do not know what happened..but, he came back around and did the asking :D

[Anonymous]

I've had girls hitting on me in a most obvious ways but was never asked out. One of them made it so obvious and later told me she wanted to ask me out.. All these girls seemed terrified. I think I would have said yes to any of them if they asked me out. I just didn't like them enough to ask out.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Girl who voted E, just quit trying for a relationship.

[SnackG]

Nope. I'll win the lottery or get struck by lightning before that ever happens.

[SnackG]

lol 4 thumbs down. Sorry for being honest everyone.

[probabilist]

rarely has a girl asked me out directly. its more of a "hey, you should take me on date" comment.

[xLuana]

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[CarelessWhisper]

happens quite often, apparently I'm the type who is like-able but takes too long to make the first move. Love a girl who's not afraid to ask a guy out, extremely attractive.

[Anonymous]

I behave in a way that no girl would dare to ask me out :P

I behave super virgin and gay , though I am non- gay :P

Although , couple of them had some weird intuition of asking me out and I had to ignore because I am not ready for dating :P

[xLuana]

What's wrong with being virgin?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know , people make it seem a big deal LOL

[Visionaryxx420]

Nope. Lol. Not in this "women are the boss" country.

[xLuana]

What country is that?

[Visionaryxx420]

America? -_-

[Anonymous]

Yes, and he said no. It didn't really even bother me that much.

[xLuana]

It would bother me...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't invest that much into someone before I know them very well. Guys build up too much into a relationship before it even exists. Mainly because they are so horny for what the person looks like and make up the rest of it.

[ryanrhino]

Yes, I have been asked out and it is quite attractive to have that balance of success and rejection.

[BCRanger10]

Kind of. My first girlfriend told me she liked me and then I was the one to suggest going out.

[doctorwhofan23]

Not yet but iwould be cool if a girl did ask me out orveven if she asked me to ask her.

[xLuana]

"orveven if she asked me to ask her." That's not a good sign... that sounds like she still wants you to do all the work apart from that

[doctorwhofan23]

It is more that she has interest though I get nervous so at least I know she wants me to ask

[xLuana]

What if you didn't like her back though?

[doctorwhofan23]

I would have to say no thanks then

[calichick]

i told a guy to hurry and ask me out before lol we just cracked jokes about it for a while and then he asked me out the next morning :)

[xLuana]

Why didn't you ask him out?

[CrazyXEpic]

PERSONALLY. I would ONLY ask a guy out when it's for the Sadies Hawkins dance at school... that's just me though. I think it's the guys responsibility to ask the girls out.

[ognioenirekjnvie]

i think it's your responsility to be in the kitchen and then wash clothes

[RememberWhenItRained]

Sadie Hawkins Dance, in my Khaki pants...

oh, sorry, Reliant K flashback...

[xLuana]

Ognioenirekjnvie was right for making that joke... gender roles are stupid! It makes me especially annoyed when I see a young person like 16-20 following them...

[xLuana]

If I hadn't asked guys out I probably would never of had the great relationships I've had

[CrazyXEpic]

Well that's all of your opinions and I have mine! No big deal! ha ha But maybe you have had awesome relationships asking guys out, but I've had pretty good relationships with guys asking me out! It's just what you prefer. And it's not like I am one of those girls that makes it impossible for guys to ask me out. But if you want to date me, don't just stand there and expect me to be some feminist bitch that will ask you out. (:

[xLuana]

What if you were the one with a crush on the guy?

[defytraditiongirl]

bullsh*t

[CrazyXEpic]

if I have a crush on a guy he will know.. trust me. I don't hide it. and if he doesn't like me the same way that's all right, ill just move right on to the next guy (: