What’s one small thing someone does that instantly makes you like them?

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I'm not talking about looks though, just a random act or something very simple

What's one small thing someone does that immediately makes you think, "Yeah, I like this person"?

Could be the way they treat strangers, how they communicate, their sense of humour... anything 🤔🤔🤔

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes that is it
When i see someone handing a bag of food to someone with a sign in there hand saying I will work for food

Or if I see some one walking over to help an elderly person

And you know that it's not a part of their family

You can tell that the person is just there to right time it's the right place and they give theirselves to helping the person that needs help I absolutely love that

Because that's who I am and I do it quite often is I'm at the right place at the right time and I'm capable of doing it so I do it

The other thing that I like is somebody that can communicate with your eyes I could be walking to a store and somebody will have eye contact with me and she won't take her eyes down and I won't either and it's just like as we're walking towards each other we're just talking to each other and as we pass each other there's like a high but no words are said but I can feel that energy Within I can feel the words I can hear the words

I also like when somebody is with their child and they're actually talking to them telling them what they're going to do or how they're going to do it but it's real communication it's not with attitude it's not with grouchiness it's not with tone it's just love and the child is communicating back by their own way it's a beautiful thing instead of seeing somebody just with a tone of voice because the kids doing something while the kids doing something because of the tone of voice dummy lol but anyway yeah anytime somebody helps somebody I like that especially when I can look into their eyes and see that they actually mean it

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Pretty hard to give any ONE small thing. There are tons of small things that make me more attracted to a girl...

Getting excited about something she genuinely loves (especially so if it's something we're both interested in)
Remembering a small detail I mentioned and bringing it up later without making a big deal about it
Being kind to everyone (the angel type)
Teasing me in a playful way without being disrespectful
Showing genuine curiosity about how I think
Being comfortable with silence so I don't feel stressed to perform when spending time together
Being goofy
Noticing something that catches their attention and interest in nature that most people would just walk past
Not being a conformist in society and being able to see the bigger picture of things

Etc

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I live near a home for kids and adolescents with Down syndrome (trisomy 21). They are the sweetest kids around, always ready for a chat or to show me something. They know that I will take my time on my way home from university and chat with them.

The way they behave, the way they look at you, the way they are innocent because they don't know how to be mean, instantly puts a smile on my face even if I had a bad day. Those kids are the best mood raisers and I do like them very much. They are never obnoxious or mean.

Natasha1995 · Accepted Answer

It's really subtle, but the way my husband rolls up his sleeves when he needs to get some work done. It happened when we were just starting to date.

Also when he is nice to strangers, holds open a door for an elderly person.

DishLady · Answer

Smile, look you in the eye, good handshake, sense of humor that "clicks" with yours.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Communication. I'll relax my boundaries with a woman a lot faster if she just walks up to me or plops into the seat next to me and starts talking without playing games and dropping arcane hints. Just a low pressure, hey how ya doin, what's going on? Straight answers. No attitude or chip on her shoulder. No shy wallflower act. Confidence and conversation skills.

Failing that, she gets a blank wall. Short answers. And no questions that would keep a conversation going. I don't waste my time on people who don't interest me.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Shows genuine kindness to a person. And when i mean genuine kindness i mean the type of kindness that is shown just because they can and it costs them nothing. Where they have absolutely NOTHING to gain by being kind to someone.

sage2021 · Answer

I like it when they smile 😊 a lot and act very nice and friendly.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Stimulating conversation about things I am interested in.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

They are fans of the same movies/series that I like.

Chayce · Answer

Not sure. I dont hyper-analyze people to that level. Either I eventually finding myself wanting to be around you, or I don't.

Wemix · Answer

A guy who can switch from being funny and a little ridiculous to making intelligent remarks. My view of him changes immediately.

Lliam · Answer

Smiling, friendly, not fake or up tight, good conversationalist. Polite. Kind to people and animals. Empathetic.

Dullie · Answer

How kind and compassionate and empathetic they are.

Kvass · Answer

Being kind to animals

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Say something politically incorrect or breaks a rule

Still-alive · Answer

- show some amount of empathy towards others. - actually seeming interested in me and asking me questions back as opposed to me asking her everything.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Smile when they look at you. Joke around a good bit. Say, "hello" as they go by.

BadInfluence05 · Answer

Just keeping me company with a cup of coffee shooting the 💩.

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

The ways they laugh and their sense of humour.

Sethay · Answer

I love a completely genuine smile. I know it seems weird, but I also like a friendly confident wink from a man or woman. Just makes me think friendly, fun, confident.

Anonymous · Answer

I like when you edge me and deny me. It turns me on even more.

mat566 · Answer

If that person is respectful and not being a bitch

NathanDavis · Answer

a good sense of humor is a must, yes

Xdressertiff · Answer

Accepting it crossdress.

dudeinohio · Answer

Personality for sure. Empathy.

wkhan_87 · Answer

Their wise behaviour and cute smiles

MasterKS · Answer

sexy attitude and aura.

Micheal6918 · Answer

Respect i guess

slatyb · Answer

They are kind.

Anonymous · Answer

Sharon Stone, Basic Instinct.

dougeats · Answer

Just a smile

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