My boyfriend told me to be a little more flirty what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He told me, ‘You have no flirtiness at all; I don’t even feel attracted to you.’ I was really hurt. Apparently, his girlfriends before me were very flirty. What do I need to do to be more flirty?

[Anonymous]

Then why is he w you? He sounds like an idiot. It’s funny how he’s talking about his exes who he’s no longer w. It’s like when people move from one country, talking shit about the country that’s saving them, but then hype up their own country that they fled from. Then they try to make the new country they’re in like their old country.

[melnc]

Since you brought up his ex, that means he's comparing you to her. That's not a good sign.

[Asker]

maybe he misses her? i dont know, but i dont want to continue with him, maybe someone more of a man and a better person than him comes into my life and makes me forget him.

[melnc]

Maybe he misses her. Maybe not. Either way, you're done so own it. But don't fool yourself into thinking the next guy is your escape plan. That's not moving on, that's running. And running never actually heals anything. If you want to forget him, forget him because you chose to, not because someone else showed up.

[Anonymous]

Well there are 7 buildings taller than the Empire State Building now so...

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he is a bit insecure. How old is he? Maybe compliment him (but only if you really mean it) Has it affected your sex life with him?

[Asker]

he is 25 years old i would understand if he said it a few times but he keeps saying things like this to me he even told me that he wanted an open relationship when i talked to other guys to test him he wasn't even jealous he read our messages and got turned on by it and actually enjoyed it im thinking about breaking up with him

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe it is time to move on?

[Anonymous]

Be more touchy and intimate

[Asker]

I am like that but he keeps saying that I don't love him

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe smile at him with direct eye contact more? He sounds like a clown tho. You are probably better off without him

[Anonymous]

Have you guys had sex yet?

[Asker]

only once and he keeps making hurtful comments about me he asks if im trans because i can't have good sex or kiss well he constantly humiliates me and it really hurts my feelings and he even told me that he didn't like my vagina

[Opinion Owner]

Dump this guy! There’s a decent chance he might be gay and projecting. Even if he’s not, there’s no excuse for treating you that way no matter what his reason.

[BadApple69]

I agree with @Opinion Owner dump this guy. If he doesn’t appreciate you now he never will. You will spend all your time being this guy’s punching bag.

[Opinion Owner]

@BadApple69 agreed!

[Anonymous]

He seems like a tool.

[NathanDavis]

dump him

[wkhan_87]

Be more flirty then