⚠️⚠️⚠️ guys Please I need advice, so there is this guy I met at camp and he is so fuckin perfect okay? so what’s the problem? The signals are so confusing I don’t think even he understands so context, camp was 1 week and we are in the same friend group and everyone thinks we look cute together, so one of the first days someone asks if he would date me and I’m just about to deny it and he is like maybe, I haven’t thought of that LIKE WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN MAYBE, so during the week we like talk a lot and joke around and like really sweet and he is so cute because I was in a country where they talk my second language and when he saw me struggling he took the time to explain everything and I’m like that’s my man so another day a friend says Spanish girls are so pretty don’t you think and he is like depends and she says but Sofia (me) is pretty and he is like I’m not deniying anything and at this point I’m dying and my delulu is higher then Empire State so like he laughs about me (not in a mean way) because I’m a bit short and because I’m Spanish so I ‘hit’ him (yk what I mean) or throw my clap (he puts it on vinted but that’s another story) and he is like the ones who fight like each other and he says it a few times so I’m like maybe he actually likes me (I caught him looking at me sometime and my friends said he stared at me) Im not a person who normally thinks that so it really looked like it and then my friend asked him (camp was over) if he liked me and after a bit he said he likes me and she could understand what he wants with that (but you couldn’t tell if it’s just friends liking or like really liking) and then I asked him (yeah stupidest decision ever, but hey I was in Italy and life was good) and he said he likes me and that’s it (I think it’s in a friend way but stay delulu) so we have a group and he like kind of ignores my messages and then two days after we have a long convo really cute (also in the group but only we texted) and the next day morning I s
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Crazy how this is one entire sentence😩. In any case, just ask him out yourself. Problem solved.
Yeah I know sorry for the formulation but there are just a lot of thoughts together, and I wish I could ask him out but we live really far away and only talk in a group chat so I don’t it will workout, but do you think he likes me?
Oh man, that definitely can complicate things. Would there be a way to make dating work? I mainly ask because whether or not he likes you doesn’t really matter if nothing can come from it. I also find it a bit hard to determine whether or not he’s interested because the context is a bit scattered lol hard to understand what was going on. But from what I did pick up it seems like a fun/flirty dynamic could be going on. Does it indicate a crush? Possibly! That would be for him to say, but he may be avoiding doing so for the same reason you don’t, aka distance.
I don't know maybe if we would talk it could work out but he doesn’t text me in private so
Could you text him privately?
Can you be a little more clear. Don't even understand some of the language.
Can you tell me what part is hard to understand so I can clarify it?
How old is he? Is it just a camp crush or do you think he has feelings? Do you live near each other or will it be a LDR thing?
14, we live far away but he lives near my family I visit a lot and I don’t know if he has a crush on me because of the mixed signals
Well both of you are still young and long distance relationships are difficult at any age. Keep an open mind and maybe follow him on socials and see how it goes
Are you sure you’re not 12, because it’s hard to tell from you post
Sounds like a summer fling to me.
Uh, what do you mean by that?
Why is he perfect