Do you prefer tension that builds slowly or instant chemistry?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I honestly prefer instant chemistry. I love the feeling of just clicking. The feeling of being able to understand each other at a glance, agree with each other's views and even admire each other for them, having a similar sense of humor and genuinely finding each other funny, wanting the same kind of life, and being sexually compatible (ex. I want to dominate, she wants to be dominated, etc.)...

Nothing beats that kind of chemistry and it's not something you can easily build over time because it's usually who you are at your core. Although they do say that the longer you're with someone the more alike you become and there is truth to that.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I’m pretty sure you need one to achieve the other… Instant chemistry is a beautiful thing. But it’s not enough. You have to use that chemistry to build tension

DishLady · Answer

Instant chemistry ("the spark") is not the strongest tension you'll feel with a person. There is often a slow burn that builds over time till it's very strong.

AviatorTom · Answer

Instant chemistry is easier but building slowly over time is more fun. Instant chemistry also burns out faster while slowly over time lasts longer.

ohsheeT · Answer

For me instant chemistry is the start to that tension building and then mixing both chemistry and tension and just keep building it and slow motion

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I prefer slowness, by far.

Because instant chemistry is going to stress me out, to make me question a lot if it's real, if I should trust my perceptions etc. Whereas the slow variant gives me enough time to process, peacefully, what's happening between us.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

Instant chemistry 🙃😗 Peter Parker wishes he could've scored in the latest Spider flick with the no spoilers.

So anyways it's all in the eyes of the beholders 👁️ 👀 👁️ 👀 that's humans, for ya 💘 cupid's arrow

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Like a volcano I love when tension slowly builds & when two hearts become one that is when the lava of love starts flowing & the is when the real chemistry starts to happen.

queenofcardio · Answer

I love when I instantly click with people. Slow burns can be boring and eventually I'll become uninterested

OneViewpoint · Answer

I prefer sexual tension that builds fast and then escalates until it's unbearable. So instant chemistry that escalates but delayed gratification. Once you have sex, a lot of the tension disappears. And the tension is fun.

neelairf · Answer

There's something magical about tension that builds slowly. It's like the diamond that needs to be polished before it becomes enamouring. ) What do you prefer?

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Both.. Instant chemistry gets my attention but the slow build is what makes it  addictive .  I like that little “are we gonna do something about this or not?” tension lol

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

Does it really matter? Maybe insta-smite is a little worrisome, still, it seems you don't necessarily get to make a logical choice all the time.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

The latter, though especially with a babe, it usually takes longer for the passion to build.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Instant chemisty. I have no patience waiting for things to happen.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course instant, so long as i know it's genuine. Guys get so used to women feigning 8nterest just for attention that when a woman does it there is a high liklihood it's usually an act. A guy has to vet her to find out what her game is.

RavVid · Answer

I think there needs to be instant chemistry.

MrChinaski · Answer

Instant. Far better to fall in love before you reach a balanced view of someone.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

It always starts with chemistry. Where it goes after that is not known.

Still-alive · Answer

Definitely the former more than the latter ;) 🔥

msc545 · Answer

Either one is fine. I'll take what I can get.

Erica8 · Answer

Slow tens to build with some awkwardness. Those are the keepers.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

I'm okay with both as long as it's real...

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Tension that builds slowly. What about you?

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

Instant Chemistry

exitseven · Answer

I like to be surprised.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Slow burn

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Instant chemistry. Hate that slow ish.

thegreenyogi · Answer

A bit of both.

The_Wolf_2002 · Answer

Tension always...  its make me crave for her...

Paige2006 · Answer

Instant

kinks1951 · Answer

Gradual build

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