Do you think the stronger the chemistry, the quicker the burn out or not?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes strong chemistry can be a bit volatile and intense, do you thinks it’s more likely to burn out quicker or set the foundation for a long relationship?

[ohsheeT]

You have to understand that you have chemistry. And then you also have energy, chemistry.

Energy chemistry is like what you would feel when people call it their soulmate. Or even like a twin flame, they come into our lives because we've known each other before.\n And in that time, the love, the passion, the beauty that we have experienced together is true and is real. But in reality.\n This is a different time.\n And we just come into each other's lives to help each other get through something , but there's such a chemistry in such a bond that it feels like it's more than that

It's not so much burnouts as much as it is that our souls, our spirits already know the truth. And we move on, it hurts because we think that chemistry is love and it is love. But that love will always be there, but we've moved on to a different time era.

But\n To be honest, I feel you're talking about a different energy or different chemistry. I mean. I think you're talking about just chemistry between 2 people who find each other beautiful in a couple different ways, they hang out they get together, maybe one but down deep, they know that they're not meant for each other. So they just kind of go their separate ways instead of working on things

[Summeroflove]

A lot of times there is issues when people jump into relationships and get too deep too fast. Before they get to genuinely know one another…. What happens if you get to really know them later on and. They are not the image you had. They have flaws, maybe they’re seeking different things form a relationship, they have a super weird kink or fetish, etc. Maybe they have a past that you didn’t know about before. A sexual past, criminal past, etc.

Early chemistry can blind people and this is especially true when one person is a dark personality such as a narcissist, sociopath, psychopath, dark empath, etc. That's the most dangerous because these people know the right words to say, the right things to do, and can seem too good to be true at first. They know how to manipulate emotions. And by the time you have it figured out…. It’s too late.

[Noredcarpet]

I think it can get to balance over time or should be a mix of it.

I do not know if I have made a mistake or not in my past but if I did not feel that chemistry off the but I wasn't patient at all. I was litherally told I should give it more time. But did I listen? Noo.

Those few I know off that are very happy were only friends in the beginning, did not have chemistry, it was no games, it came after a while as they too went through a change in themselves, what type they were attracted to.

[DishLady]

No. It just depends on the two people.


Chemistry hits at different levels. If you’re just horny, that faded. But if your personalities sync up nicely and you find yourselves laughing, comfortable AND turned on… that’s the beginning of something.

[HawkPerception]

No. I really don't think so. The stronger chemistry you have (which in my opinion is similarities), the more you fall in love with them.

The more similar views you have, the less conflict you have.

The more similar interests you have, the more you enjoy spending time with them, enjoy talking about the same things together, and same activities together.

When you share a similar sense of humor, you can laugh at the same things together.

When your goals align, it means you can see a future together.

When you have sexual compatibility, it means all your kinks align and you'll likely have a successful sex life.

[MikeMcMansion]

“Chemistry” usually means the ability to get along, which usually just means you’re both just very sexually attracted to each other.

Here’s the caveat, men have a wide range of what they can be sexually attracted to, women absolutely do not. For the younger folk (men usually well under 40) what a fit single guy might be attracted to could easily change. This is one reason of many why women need to looks-match for long term partners and not shoot for the same top 5 percent of men around their age that all the other women are chasing.

Also, keeping a good attitude and never using sex as a weapon on a guy with options (or any guy really) is imperative for you to keep the “chemistry”. Relationships aren’t magic, they take work. Being loyal and expressing your love often is fine, if he is actually sexually attracted to you, the level clinginess has to reach to become cringey is skitzo-stalker levels.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I haven't seen strong chemistry being a problem, what I have seen is me mixing up that strong chemistry with whatever wishes I projected instead of looking at what really happens to her, and to me. This, this blend does burn, it's only from a distance that chemistry seemed to be a core issue, looking closer it was not.

[exitseven]

Yes, it might be just lust and not love. It is really overpowering and intense but after a while it isn;t

[Asker]

Is all just so intoxicating and overwhelming though? How can you tell the difference?

[Asker]

**lust

[exitseven]

Ah, there's the rub

[RingOfFire]

It's a good question. I think what really matters no matter how strong the chemistry is how fast the fantasy phase wears off. The real question is whether or not you are compatible with that person at that stage. Sometimes you find out relatively quickly and other times it takes a while.

[GeorgePulchri]

It depends on what you mean by chemsitry. If you mean just any old excitement, then yeah watch out. If they are praising the heck out of you right away, thats like the higher the praise the harder the fall.

But if the chemistry is because you find out that there is a bit of harmony and complementarity in how you process challenges together...

That's delicious. And could last.

[snermcger]

Only if the genitals are stimulated.
I have had those relationships. Hot for each other from the start. Then it kind of fades off.
They do make some really good hook ups later down the road though. Get that random call at 10 pm on a Tuesday..."whatcha doin?"
Little Christmases.

[slatyb]

Not necessarily. I dated a Ph. D. Engineer, the sex was the best ever, and the conversation was fascinating. I still miss talking with her.

[DreamCrescent]

and thennnn it burned out …?

[MrChinaski]

Let me guess. The glass wasn't half-full, nor half empty... it was twice as big as it should be?

[Nikki1989]

If there is a burnout, the chemistry was never really there.

[Anonymous]

It could probably work both ways. I'm biased, but I hope it lays the ground work for a strong relationship. It might be worth it to try. The worse case scenario is you fail to act, and this person haunts your thoughts for years.

[live2dance25]

Possibly, but burnout happens for a lot of reasons. Compatibility, feeling taken advantage of, different goals, etc.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's more likely to explode if they're not honest with each other. But if they both bring their best selves to the relationship, then anything is possible.

[AviatorTom]

No, there may not be a burnout, but if there is a burnout, it's pretty intense.

[WhitneySnow]

It could do either. Really depends on the two people and the circumstances surrounding them.

[Twalli]

Let me put it in a way I heard in a show once "There's a lot of chemistry at Chernobyl". It can be dangerous. but as long as it doesn't explode, it's pretty good.

[Anonymous]

So now we're supposed to go out and look for “medium chemistry” relationships?

[Sal_Monella]

I never knew what chemistry was. All I did was like someone and be sexually attracted to them.

[linka_pat307]

Too strong acid are highly acidic and corrosive... that tells the end of a relationship... lol

[Alex-Snow]

I do not think so... but if it is true enjoy the fun times and orgasms while it lasts! Ur thoughts?

[jahaims]

Burn out happens if you guys are in the relationship for unhealthy reasons

[DextroShade]

It only burns out like that if you are ran-through and can't pair-bond

[Anonymous]

No. That's nonsense. I'd say if a person has that problem they're attracted to feelings and not really the person they're with.

[Aristo64]

Some people do not deserve kindness and love. Poor people.

[DryGermanGuy]

No, but this combination exists, of course.

[elizamichale1]

No not really...

[ProbablyClueless]

That’s certainly been my experience.

[msc545]

I definitely tend to agree with this.

[In_Trance]

No I don't think that at all

[Anonymous]

Depends on the couple.

[Iamyy]

Agree

[MasterKS]

yes its true.