Does my married friend secretly enjoy her coworker’s attention?

[Anonymous]

He gives her little treats occasionally, checks up on her , I mean gave his #out to her willingly, asked her to hang out ( she even wanted to go hiking with him ) he said how he enjoys hiking and she seems to as well, she was like one day will go I caught her and asked agains he was like we like hiiking nvm I didn’t say that , than with him asking her to hangout she says she won’t do it now anyways I don't know if she secretly likes him and hiding how she actually feels or what? Than when we where leaving he rubbed his back against her she saw me see and says you know better how to say bye as if she didn’t like it lol Am I wrong?

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And to add on she likes to bring his name up a lot such as his name gave me those candies or when I said I like you’re hair down she goes yes he already asked if it’s for him…

[Melody90]

I don't think you're necessarily wrong to suspect that she enjoys his attention, but I wouldn't automatically assume she has romantic feelings for him. The little treats, checking up on her, exchanging numbers, and invitations to hang out suggest that there's some degree of interest or closeness between them, although it's difficult to know whose interest it is or what it means.

Her willingness to go hiking with him and the way she initially responded to his suggestion could indicate that she enjoys his company. However, enjoying someone's attention doesn't necessarily mean wanting a romantic relationship with them. Sometimes people like feeling attractive or appreciated without intending to take things furtherWhat caught my attention was her reaction when you noticed him rubbing his back against her. Her comment could have been an attempt to distance herself from the situation, but it could also have been genuine discomfort or an awkward joke.

Ultimately, I think it's possible that she enjoys the attention, even if she doesn't want to admit it, but there's not enough evidence to know for sure. Since she's married, I'd pay more attention to whether she's maintaining appropriate boundaries than to whether she secretly finds him attractive..

[Asker]

She confirmed that he is one of the attractive guys out of all the man at the job

[emeraldsaphire]

I mean, it sounds like an affair to me, but you never know for sure. And they could be in some kind of open relationship. Couples set their own boundaries

[Asker]

Yea she can tell me just as little information and hide the rest but I’m sure there is more to it

[happyoldman]

I think it's possible she enjoys the attention, but that doesn't necessarily mean she has romantic feelings for him some people enjoy being appreciated without wanting anything more.

[Asker]

She thinks his an attractive guy compare to other man

[happyoldman]

Even if she thinks he’s more attractive than other men, that doesn't automatically mean she's interested in him romantically what's more important is how she responds to his attention and whether she maintains appropriate boundaries in her marriage.

[Asker]

She loves his attention bc everything he do something she brings it up and then says I think his friend knows something