Men how would you feel about a hot woman dming YOU first, messaging u first, would that make her any less attractive than if you made the first move?

[Tigress1039]

[Chazmatazz269]

I would be interested, but also concerned. I have a long, sad history of nutjobs being interested in me. So my first question would be “Who is this?” and my second question would be “What the f*ck is wrong with her?”. Ell oh ell!
Not gonna lie, i would likely arrive at the conclusion that it’s probably not a woman at all and even if she is, she’s almost certainly some kind of scammer.
When i was new to California, i went to Hollywood and visited The Scum and Villainy Cantina. A very attractive woman took the empty seat to my left and started chatting me up. The first thing i did was pat myself down to make sure she hadn’t picked my pocket. No joke.
I’m a good dude, but i have a face for radio. So nobody is initiating conversation with me based on looks alone. Honestly, most strangers are scared of me to look at me. So people who aren’t scared OF me are kinda scary TO me. Ell oh ell!

[Danny_dan92]

A lot of women are doing this nowadays. It’s nothing out of the ordinary.




I think this is cause a lot of us men are checked out on trying. And or focusing on getting our shit squared away

[slatyb]

I would surprised and flattered, and no, it would not make her any less attractive.

[WhitneySnow]

I think if she was hot most men wouldn’t care

[bowenw]

I would be very happy if that ever happened.

[msc545]

No actually what you described would make him much more attractive since it would seem like she actually cared about my feelings a little bit anyway.

[Anonymous]

Not possible. I can only be DM'd by women i'm following/following me. And i do not have any hot women following/have following me.

[Iron_Man]

Nope as long as she’s not a scammer and she’s for real

[jamesgoldman]

Absolutely not, both my exes approached me

[AgentG111]

Absolutely not.