How can I start a conversation with an attractive girl I don’t know?

[Anonymous]

Talking to girls you find attractive.

[SueShe]

In order to talk to anyone, not just a girl, you must be proactive. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

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Just be yourself and start with a casual greeting, don't overthink it, a simple compliment or asking about her interests can be a good way to break the ice, being respectful and genuine matters more than having the perfect opening line

[Anonymous]

Just talk to them normally. Like anyone else you would. You’re already overthinking this by a mile.

[Anonymous]

Same as you would anyone else. Don't overthink it.

[Asker]

How to start?

[In_Trance]

You asked this twice... Why

[Anonymous]

You can't not legally at least