How quickly should you make your intent known with a girl?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

ASAP. By setting the tone upfront, you will know going forward what you’re dealing with, and what to expect. Back towards the end of when I was actively dating, I didn’t want to invest time into something that wasn’t going anywhere that I was looking to go, so by asking the right questions during the beginning of our conversations, it at least let me know that we were working towards the same goal. VS stumbling blindly along, being on different pages.

[Asker]

By asap what do you mean? Do you mean like when you get her number, name or within the first conversation?

[HollyK21]

By asap I mean as soon as you feel comfortable. Don’t wait forever to ask, keep it within the early stage of meeting her. No need to overthink or complicate, it doesn’t have to be perfectly executed, just find a window of time where the conversation is flowing to ask what she’s looking for. The most I would say is to wait until you have her number, because at least then you’d know she’s interested vs just chatting because you approached and potentially she just doesn’t want to be impolite.

[Genie23]

I'd say from the first day. Would save your time and hers if it turns out both of you want different things.

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

I'd say it's best to just let it be known from the start. If they're interested they'll eventually move on it... if not...

NEXT!

Trying to be all coy and pretend you're not trying to smash just confuses the shit of them.

[Viola_456]

Well the best is right away. But you dont have to be exact about all your plans 😅
I mean if you invite her to a dinner she will know where its going if she's not stupid

[slatyb]

What do you mean? If you are attracted, plan a date and ask her out. Don't ask her if she wants to hang out, inviter to dinner with you at a specific place and time.

[Iron_Man]

You can tell if she’s getting serious depends on her reactions on everything

[Nikki1989]

ASAP.

Why wait?

[queenofcardio]

Ideally, early on

[Anonymous]

I say right away so there's no time being wasted

[Asker]

When you say right away how right away are we talking?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe when you get her name

[Asker]

Damn that fast?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes lol

[Asker]

What about if she is a former coworker? How fast do you move and try to get the date?

[Opinion Owner]

Just ask to meet up sometime later on in the week. If she's into you she'll say yes

[Anonymous]

We know what your intent is.

[Knotty_ducker19]

I try to make my intentions known very early