How do you make your intentions clear to a girl right from the start?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I meet a girl I seem to like, I always try to be very friendly to her. It comes sort of instinctively to me. I always think that if I become good friends with her, then I can take the next step. But that has never helped and I have always been cast away into the friend zone. People say to me that I have to start giving the girl hints right from the start. But I can't understand how to do it.

Please give me some tips on what exactly can I do to not sound too friendly but instead let her understand that I like her right from the start.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well you're aware that what you're doing doesn't work. So you do exactly the opposite.

So let's say you meet a girl at a party. You're getting along, she's laughing at your jokes and seems interested. Don't hang out with her all night. After you're getting the vibes you say "It's been great talking to you, you're really cool. I gotta go check on my friends, but can I have your # to give you a call later?"

So next day or two you call her. You talk a bit, don't chit-chat for hours and say "So, would you like to go out next Saturday?"

You go out on the date, have fun, and that's it.

[Dionysos]

It's all in the eye contact. Look her calmly in the eyes and grin as you imagine exactly (in pornographic detail) exactly what you'd like to be doing to her.

Just do it for a second every now and then. More is creepy at this stage. Whatever you do, don't profess undying love. In fact, BE a friend. Just keep that look every so often and when the time is right (she returns the look, for example, tell her that does it, she's totally getting kissed now. She'll either stop you or grin.

Then make like the crab said in Little Mermaid and kiss the girl.

[Snowwhite89]

Give her a sexy grin and laugh at her jokes and a give her a flirtatious sexual joke but nothing too extreme.

[Anonymous]

Flirt don't offer to do favors for her and don't throw tons of compliments and sweet words her way

[Mesonfielde]

You need to be nice, but not a frickin' doormat who obeys every single word and tries to cater to them and say "you're the most beautiful streak of sunshine fallen from heavens in the form of an angel" because it's creepy and corny. Also, I'd rather choose to be uninterested in any female who doesn't like you because you aren't a prick, they're obviously broken at some point of their core. That's why it's easier to find a reasonable introvert. Basically, I think "giving the girls hints" is the opposite of what you want to do. You have to get to know them, but not smother them with misdirected idolization, putting them on a pedestal just because they look pretty and have a vagina. A person is worth far more than that, and people see if that's all you value them for.

[Forca]

How I do it is if I meet them and seem to get on well but I know I may not see them again, I'll ask them for their number, if they give me it, I'll then text them a few days down the line and making some small talk and then I'll tell them that I'm interested in them and I'll then tell them to meet me on a certain day at a certain place at a certain time.

If I have seen them around them a few times, had a few conversations with them and I'm interested, I'll ask them out.

[molan]

I am always friendly toward all I meet, so that is not the way I go.

I'll flirt with her and pay attention to her (what she say, don't say, how she act, show to look, just about everything), I am bold a bit agressive, but it pays off in two way. The one's who are not interested let me know quickly before I waste too much time and effort, the rest seem to react positivly on boldnes.

[Lakeshow12]

Come off flirtatious , make strong eye contact and tease her a bit she’ll get the hint girls are very good at picking up on all those things just try not to overdo it or do too much be playful with it