Does anyone else find talking to women hard when you can't tell if they're interested?

[Burgermistercold]

[Chazmatazz269]

No. 😂😂😂😂
There’s so much wrong with how you phrased the question. So, talking to women is actually pretty easy. It’s almost identical to talking to men.
What you’re experiencing is likely the anxiety of anticipated rejection or acceptance because you are projecting too much into a simple conversation, and most women can detect that. Try talking to more women with whom you don’t care to pair. Then use what you learn from those conversations in chats with women with whom you do want to pair. It takes away a lot of the anxiety and you won’t be putting out the “conqueror” vibe. There are places where men and women meet up explicitly to hook up. That is a very different conversation than anything outside of that context, even if the goal is to hook up. Understand? Don’t treat people, men or women, like you’re only interested in what you can get out of them. They will be much more accepting of a casual conversation then, and you can figure out if you have enough in common to later have the anxious conversation where you tell her that you want to spend time getting to know her better.

[RavVid]

Good advice.

[laraWM]

Not really, if they are not interested they'll let you know

[Anonymous]

Your criteria for “talking to women” should not be whether she's interested in you or not, it should be to be polite and carry on an interesting conversation. They if she's interested, great. If she's not, you don't have to talk to her again. The conversation itself might make her interested where she wasn't before.

[NoDecision]

What exactly are you wanting to talk them about? If you are just asking for directions how hard can it be? If you are wanting into her pants, I can see where that might be awkward.

[Abbycado]

No, not in particular. I guess my question is why does a girl have to be interested? Can you just not talk to them like anyone else?

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I can talk to anyone out in the real world.

[Burgermistercold]

that's nice I struggle to read cues myself body language faceial expressions i find talking to guys easier as it doesn't seem as important with them.

[Erin_B]

It's easy then. Talk to us like you talk with your bodies, but watch the language though

[slatyb]

No, why can't you tell? If they talk back they are interested. If they give minimal answers they are not.

[NathanDavis]

no, I don't talk to people out of interest... I just like people, and talking

[capriVib]

You're just talking man, it's not like you're asking her to come to bed.

[Anonymous]

That is why you just to them if you want to and to hell if they're interested. As a great man once said, "50 no's and a restraining sometimes means, "yes".