Oh jeez, I tend to do a few things:
The main thing is that I just have this permanent smile on my face. It's one of those huge 'cheek to cheek' sort of smiles that just can't be wiped off and can probably be seen from at least a mile away. The guy I like can just be talking and so forth and I'll just be sitting there, smiling away like a doof... a happy doof though lol.
One of the other things is that I blush when I'm around them, especially if they give me some sort of compliment. And I'm not talking about the cute sort of blushing... I mean the full-out kind where your face just resembles the redness of a tomato haha. It's just terrible. I feel like my face is radiating a temperature that would burn to the touch.
And although I consider myself to be a person who tries to engage in sincere conversation with most people, I often do take a particular interest and invest a special kind of effort when I'm talking with them. Not because I'm going all "googly"eyed" over them or anything, but the guys I usually fall for tend to be quite well-spoken, open-minded, knowledgeable, and extremely interesting people to converse with. So operating on that further combined with the fact that I like them, it just makes my interest in the conversation and what they have to say all the more heightened.
If it's someone I'm attracted to but don't actually know (ie. a complete stranger) then I tend to get rather quiet, at times avoid eye contact, and act a bit more "reserved", but still fairly confident and friendly nonetheless since that's just how I am.
As far as my personality goes though, I'd consider myself - and have been told - that I'm kind of goofy, pretty laid-back, open minded and extremely non-judgmental, kind, and fairly intelligent for the most part... or at least well-spoken enough to imitate intelligence ha :P.
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Probably the two biggest things that I do when I'm around someone that I'm attracted to are 1. I can't. Stop. Smiling. It's bloody ridiculous, haha
and 2. I get very sarcastic. Not in a mean way, I just make a lot of sarcastic jokes, and stuff like that. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but it's just what happens.
My personality has undergone quite a few changes in the last year. I used to be super shy and reserved, and I was scared of everything, but in the last little while I've been working on breaking out of my shell. I joined a co-ed soccer team full of people I didn't know, I got a job in retail, I got my driver's licence, I get out of the house a lot more... and I'm finding out that maybe I'm not as socially awkward and shy and scared as I thought I was. Or at least as I used to be.
My thing is my sense of humour. I've got a little bit of every kind, from dirty, to sarcastic, to childish, to witty, to clever... it's the thing that people are often surprised to find out about me. I appreciate the little things in life, and I also appreciate when people have a sense of humour about life, and don't take it too seriously. I like being silly and goofy. I'm very open-minded - I don't like to judge people. I'm really good at reading people. I kind of have a sixth sense when it comes to that kind of thing.
Those are the basics. If you want to know anything else, feel free to ask! :-)
I'm dumb and act exactly the same and don't show my feelings at all. >.<
Not good, but I can't seem to change it...
I'm usually really, uber friendly, sarcastic (not in a mean way), and make witty comments.
I also tease a lot. I take everything my peers say literally, just to tease them.
I make corny jokes that most people think aren't funny, but to me they are...[:
I'm shy around new people; unless I'm with another shy person. I'm pretty outgoing and state what's on my mind when I'm around people that are close to me.
Usually I try to act cool (lame I know)...poke fun at them and try to be as goofy as I can be because I'm a pretty goofy guy. I'm typically down to have a good time I just say and do weird things usually. My sense of humor is no different then most peoples its just that I have a soft spot for idosyncracies in people and I try to draw them out because that is the true part of their personalities...the odd parts they don't show. Truth is that it never f***ing works...they get bored of me trying to know them...more then likely because were in a social setting and I'm like getting all serious with the conversation. Maybe I just come off too strong man.
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This has actually changed drastically over the last year; I use to be pretty shy, so if there was someone I liked I didn't really talk to them unless they initiated it first, and even them I'm sure I was super awkward about it, blushing, avoiding eye contact etc.
Now it' a lot easier for me, and I have more guy friends then girls..
around anyone I'm pretty friendly, still a bit reserved I'm not extremely outgoing or anything, I think I act pretty cute that goes along with my height since I'm like a dwarf compared to others. I can be pretty witty, and sarcastic at times. Around a guy I really like it's basically the same I tend to tease them a lot, in a friendly way. I don't really flirt because I suck at it so iguess that's my way of doing it. :pI smile a lot, and I hide behind my hands, in my hood or inside my shirt. I try to be nice to them and compliment them and touch them...but not that much, just a hug or their shoulder
I also do that whole awkward flirting, looking at you but not, thing. yeah. I think I used to be better at this.
I'm pretty confident really, I've been described as incredibly quirky and adorable, also intense, intelligent and very attractive. I have pretty poor communication skills when it comes to things like relationships. They are really stressful and my mind goes askfdkhfaweuh;fajh.I sometimes ignore him on purpose, I laugh at his jokes (but sometimes force myself not to laugh ) I'm quiet when we are around people we know, but when we hang out, I'm so comfortable. I text him frequently, just to hear from him, I jokingly insult him (I guess you can call it flirting lol), I smile a lot when I'm with him, I make long eye contacts when talking with him, I like hugging him. These are all part of the many things I do that is kinda obvious to me (hopefully not to him). There are probably a lot more I'm not aware of :s
Honestly I'm naturally funny, sarcastic, witty, and talkative so hiding my nervousness from someone I like isn't difficult. I just hide it behind with and humor. I think I more or less seem the same when I'm around someone I'm attracted to. I talk a lot, I make jokes, I flirt, make eye contact, etc. same as always. if you're really extraordinarily observant, you might notice slight differences in my body language at certain times, but I'm generally the same.
i sometimes constantly pull at my clothes or something with someone I like, adJusting myself. depending on what we are talking about I might trip over a few words, but nothing serious.
its usually how I act when they aren't around that is the problem - OBSESSED lolJust attraction:I just like stare at them a lot
Attracted to and like: I noticed I'm pretty mean to the person I like...but in a nice way =) hahaha that makes no sense. I'm always making fun of him or getting into an argument with him but I always wanna be around him and always find myself gravitating towards him or trying find a way to get near him. I always bring up something that will get him to talk (like an inside joke in a previous conversation. I smile like there is no tomorrow. I ignore him sometimes or I won't say anything to him until he says something first. If he says something sweet, I will reply with something rude (but smile while doing so).
My personality is pretty random. I'm pretty talkative and I like to make people laugh. I have my moody days but overall I'm pretty outgoing. I randomly dance to anything ...anywhere. I laugh a lot. I just love joking around. Sometimes I don't make any sense haha.i tend to smile more.. and look at them several times to see if they notice me.. my heart starts pounding and I get nervous (which is why I tend to speak faster).. my 1st reaction is to try to talk to him and see if he's interested.. but sometimes I get so nervous I don't go over to him.. depends on the4 setting and if I have the chance to go speak or if he's busy then I won't go try to talk.. hope I helped.
I talk to him more often then other people. I make fun of him constantly. I make sure he knows I'm boss ;). I don't back down. he most likely knows I like him deep down, but I'm pretty sure he questions it sometimes. He thinks I'm a mystery and I love to keep him guessing. I don't want to get all shy, because I can't afford to have him using it against me. Even though I like him and he likes me I wouldn't/couldn't be with him.
I'm guarded. I always have a back up plan when it comes to relationships (so they can't screw me over) I use/hurt people before they can do the same to me...I usually avoid all forms of eye and physical contact and I try to avoid talking to them at all costs. I do this so they won't know that I am attracted to them. Sad, but very true. I almost always ask someone "Is it hot in here?" because I always get sweaty and nervous.
First thing is I have to conciously slow my heartrate or else I'll get a little shaky. After that ordeal is over I have trouble maintaining eye contact and I start grinning like an idiot when I feel like there's some positive interaction.
Personality? I'm a very private person that is extremely laid back once I open up.- talk a lot
- nervous
- avoid eye contact but if we do get eye contact I quickly glance away
- smile a lot
- laugh
- mix up words
I'm really shy when it comes to guys and I'm generally sociable, talkative, fun person with my friends.When, I'm with people who are not that close to me, I'm generally reserved, quiet, and shy.Im always up front I like to flirt get to know her and be really nice to her and get her to like me but I don't say anything till I'm sure she likes me. My personality.. umm... I'm 14 first of all ha ha and I'm big in sports so I have I'm fit and girls say I'm hott but I can't say that for myself :p but I'm a really nice guy up front ill talk to you if your down if you have problems ill fix them for you :)
If the attraction is intense, the same way I act around someone I have utter contempt for! So, avoiding eye contact, mainly. I'll act like I'm completely indifferent towards them. This is a really bad habit.
When I do come out of my shell and become more relaxed around the person I'll flirt and throw in the subtle touching.
Meanwhile I have no problem flirting with people I'm NOT attracted to!I'm shy, so in the beginning I would be quiet but as we got to know each other more I would start talking A LOT. In fact, once I am comfortable with him I would probably try to hang out and talk to him all the time, flirting and stuff. One of my signs I really like a guy is that I give him my number first; I hate giving out my number to people and I don't like it when guys ask for my number, so when I like a specific guy I will give it to him and see what he does with it.
act like I don't like them at all when I really want to go up to him and say "I WANT YOU SO BAD!"
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I'm somewhere between shy and outgoing, but I'm more on the shy side. I will joke around with her, get playfully sad when she can't hang out, go out of my way to help her with simple things, jumble words, stuff like that.
I think everyone have different personalities and will react to situations differently. However, the key is treating you differently from everyone else, basically her behavior will be different with you.
I'm a walking stereotype. I'm kind of a nerdy guy and I'm shy. So usually when I'm around somebody I like, I fumble over my words, try to act cooler and smarter than I actually am. I don't know what other people see, maybe I'm the only that notices when this happens. Another thing I catch myself doing is talking faster than I usually do.
I flirt:D And so does he. But then again,he flirts with everyone(well,almost everyone).
If I'm talking to a guy I'm attracted to I smile like a geek.
If I just see a guy I think is hot I look at them a lot but try not to lol I fail. :(I get more giggly, smiley, look into his eyes, stand closer. I think my voice gets higher pitched. I just can't stop looking at him. I may not know what to say to him sometimes and I also flirt more.
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