How do confident guys flirt?

[Anonymous]

I'm sure the rules of blushing/not talking to her doesn't apply in this case. I find it harder to identify with them too because I'm not sure if they're being friendly or flirting. Any ideas?

[MaxPrime]

aaah the wonderful essential question...there are three BASIC parts to this answer.

1. Kino - a.k.a. touch...when coming up to a girl we use touch as a simple way of conveying interest. and when I say touch I don't mean pounce. We brush our hand down her shoulder/arm for a sec. when telling a story or complimenting something about her personallity or interests (not her looks...she gets these compliments all the time) This way we aren't just laying our hand on her for minutes at a time.

2. Sexual Innuendoes (humor) - basically using small bits of sarcasm, sexual innuendoes, and confidence to make her laugh. Make her think of us men as a "sex worthy man", not a boy.

3. Lead - last but not least...we lead her...we take her into OUR world not the other way around. We are confident, we smile, and we try to be natural. Real.

Good Luck

[Asker]

That's really interesting! Are these 3 basic parts in order of how obvious it is? Like, if this guy liked a girl, he for sure is more likely to touch vs. sexual innuendos? And what kind of sexual innuendo's do you mean ? Eg. "I like doggy style?"

[MaxPrime]

Lol I'll answer ur multiple questions in order here...

Question #1 & #2. No this is not in particular order on how obvious. These steps must flow within each other to be truly seen as a confident man.

Question #3. lol "I like doggy style" is an obvious sexual statement, not a sexual innuendo. It's hard to explain. It's about being subtle with the words but obvious in the facial expressions. It's about smiling and teasing. I her know "subtly" of my intentions. Good intentions of course ;-)

[Asker]

Would references to sex/sexual ideas be an innuendo? :S I'm sorry I'm so confused, but thanks so much for a really great answer ^^

[MaxPrime]

Lol yes, references to anything sexual is showing that he's not afraid of the subject, if a guy is talking to you and hinting to these ideas/things then he's flirting, if he doesn't mention sexual innuendos then he is either being just friendly or to nervous to be sexually confident...and your welcome...it's these questions that make my day...lol

[Asker]

Thanks for a great answer!

[ManOnTheMoon]

Most guys who are confident, generally come right out and ask. The only thing that might short circuit this behavior would be that they may be confused about your availability. Are you sure that your now putting off signals that you are unavailable. Some women put off these vibes because they don't want to appear to forward or desperate. Isn't that weird? Make eye contact. This is the best way to tell a guy that you are interested. Don't look away, but keep eye contact and don't forget to smile.

[AI Opinion]

How to Know a Guy Is Flirting

It's not always easy to tell if a guy is flirting with you or just being friendly. But there are some telltale signs that can give you a clue.

If a guy is flirting with you, he'll probably:

1. Make eye contact.

If he's interested in you, he'll want to look into your eyes.

2. Smile.

A genuine smile is a good sign that he's attracted to you.

3. Lean in.

When a guy is interested in a girl, he'll often lean in closer to her.

4. Touch you.

He might touch your arm or shoulder, or even give you a light touch on the cheek.

5. Compliment you.

If he compliments you on your looks, he's definitely flirting.

If you're not sure whether a guy is flirting with you or not, just ask him directly. He might not admit it outright, but you'll be able to tell from his answer whether he's interested or not.

Signs He Is Flirting With You

When it comes to the world of flirting, the lines can often be blurred. Is he just being friendly or is he actually flirting with you? It can be difficult to tell, but there are usually some tell-tale signs that he is indeed flirting with you.

Here are a few of the most common signs that he is flirting with you:

1. He Makes Eye Contact

One of the most common signs that a guy is flirting with you is if he makes prolonged eye contact. If he looks into your eyes for longer than a normal conversation would warrant, it’s a pretty good sign that he’s interested in you.

2. He Touches You

Another common sign of flirting is if he touches you. This could be anything from a light touch on the arm to a more intimate embrace. If he’s touching you more than what would be considered normal, it’s a good sign that he’s flirting with you.

3. He Compliments You

Compliments are always a nice ego boost, but if he’s complimenting you more than usual, it could be a sign of flirting. If he’s constantly telling you how beautiful you are or how great your sense of humor is, he’s definitely interested in you.

4. He Asks You Personal Questions

If he’s asking you personal questions that go beyond the basics, it’s a good sign that he’s interested in you. He wants to know more about you and is probably flirting with you.

5. He Mirror Your Body Language

Have you ever noticed that when you’re talking to someone, they tend to mirror your body language? If he’s doing this, it’s a sign that he’s interested in you and is trying to subconsciously make a connection with you.
These are just a few of the most common signs that a guy is flirting with you. If you’re wondering if a guy is interested in you, keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs.

[JPresidente]

Usually start with minor compliments and or harmless joke. Then eye contact, ask them questions about themselves, make them laugh. Then light touching with more probing personal questions. Don’t volunteer too much information about myself and make her more curious and start to chase. That’s a brief summary.

[dasouthernicon]

Confident dudes flirt by just talking to the girl... they ain't nervous, and just naturally flow in their approach...

[FilmGuy93]

Talk with her, tell jokes, be a little bit sexual. Nothing complicated