First up, chill down and take a deep breath, because just by reading this I got the feeling that you're stressed out like hell over this crush...
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Calm? OK, let's continue:
You're dealing with a shy boy. It's not really his way to talk a lot to "strangers" even though he may like them. I, for instance, am one myself. I had a crush on a very beautiful girl in my class for 2 years(!) and never told her. She talked to me several times but it ended the same way as you are describing. Mostly, gorgeous girls can be quiet intimidating to a guy and make them very nervous, hence the shy reaction. And the point with not looking in the eyes and looking down a lot comes down to the same thing: Shyness. Being scared to look someone in the eye in fear of rejection, EVEN though they just started talking to you (which they wouldn't if they'd reject you). Things like that. It's a weird thing, because it just takes control over you sometimes, though you'd (I'd) wish it were different.
And as a final note on what to do: Take initiative! Keep talking to him, but don't pressure him, don't make him feel uncomfortable. And ask him out maybe? That should get his attention. And let that friend of yours put in a good word with him. ;)
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You said he's shy. From what you have here, he could very well be interested in you. That's the problem with shy people. They are hard to read and may not know how to get the ball rolling.
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he sounds shy to me. I ignored all the hot girls becasue I always thought they were too good for me so you probably are really intimitating.
maybe he discovered what girls are all about and wants etc and gets turned off by it.
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