I like a guy, but I'm not his type, how do I get over him?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I had amazing chemistry and we did hook up a couple of occasions, but he was drunk so I don't know if he was actually into me and if he'd hooked up with me had he been sober. Now he's all friends with a girl who is prettier and has a bubblier personality than mine, so yeah, I'm now invisible and while we get along well too, now I feel he treats me more like one of the guys than back then when he was flirtatious with me and made me feel more "like a woman":

I like him, and have this stupid nagging sensation of reject. I see him often, though, and I can't really avoid him, I don't know what to do to stop these feelings, 'cause I also feel low about myself, ugly and uninteresting, and like maybe no sober guy would really be into me. There is one guy who is really into me, though, but he's not really my type so I feel really guilty about rejecting him, I feel like such a hypocrite. I just feel really sh*tty about all these things.

[guv2201]

We want things we can't have, its our nature and that makes it hard to get over these people. I was in the same boat as you a year ago, girl was amazing! but we had nothing in common and I knew it wouldn't last, she ended it for her own mental issues, but still it hurt like a mofo. Despite telling myself it would never work and it was strictly physical I still kept thinking about her.

The way to get over him is TIME. After awhile you move on and forget about it. What also helps is finding something to occupy yourself.

The fact that you say you feel low about yourself and have nothing nice to say about yourself is certainly not going to help you find a guy. You need to change your attitude big time. Guys want a girl that is happy, and confident. Finding that happiness and confidence is not easy and everyone finds it in different ways, you just need to try new things, push your comfort level and its amazing what can happen.