Why do random guys always try to talk to girls?

[Anonymous]

ESPECIALLY the mexicans... I'm not stereotyping but majority of them do it and I have no idea why

i look very young for my age and it makes me uncomfortable when people still say hi. its so wrong...

it angers me when I see them trying to talk to girls! I give them my evil eye lol

but you know what makes me happy? when some guy tries to talk to me... other people would tell them to f*** off ha ha <33

i love it when I hold the door for someone and they go thank you darling/sweetie

or when I sneeze and they say bless you, then tell me I have a pretty smile

i mean you can talk to random girls...you just gotta do it at the right time. don't be a creeper and ask for our name first.

[Anonymous]

Lol creeper is code language for 'i'm an immature dumbass bitch who wants attention so I feel good, but f*** everyone else who is merely trying to meet new people and have a normal conversation'.

So what if someone talks to you? Big f***ing deal, if you don't like talking to people, leave whatever city/town you're in, and live in the middle of no where, you can find peace and tranquility there. If you're merely about 'feeling good', then grow the f*** up and quit being an attention whore.

Idgaf if you think there is a 'right time or place'. There is ALWAYS a place and time to talk to people. To make this clear, if someone is in a book store, the mall, or any other place looking at something, there is always a subject to be spoken of, and stories to be shared. Names usually come after you leave, as does the number. This assumes you are at least a competent person and can hold a conversation,because most women can't even hold a conversation. From my experience *if a guy doesn't handle the conversation and where it goes*, then women usually revert to their shy side, stare at you blankly like a lazy eyed donkey and call you a "creeper" because of it! I've heard stories like this numerous times from guys who have to deal with girls LIKE you. Although you seem more in the 'immature retard' territory than the 'I can't talk to people'.

[Asker]

couldve just said go f*** yourself

itll be a lot easier for me to read...but nahhhhh just talk down on me when you don't know anything because that's the mature thing to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, don't be a bitch, and people won't put you in your place. simple isn't it? I find the concept to be very simple. If you don't want to be judged, or talked down upon, then don't judge others. You've made quite a few judgments,I'd say what is written towards you is well deserved. Reading your question reminded me of how a child behaves. My annoyance is clear.Whether that makes me 'immature', that isn't really my problem.

[Anonymous]

So many rules. Girls complain about guys not coming up to them, but other times they complain that guys are too aggressive. One of the things that some girls love about black guys is that they are aggressive. They fall all over them, so I'm guessing that it has to do with their attractiveness. You just aren't attracted to Mexicans, right?

[Asker]

attracted to the ones closer to my age haha

i never heard of a girl that likes strangers coming up to them and trying to talk lol but its a different story if you're at a club or a bar...but in the middle of the streets? that's too much

[Opinion Owner]

You see some pretty girl that you may never see again. Why not try to see if she's interested too?

A lot of girls complain about certain guys not coming up to them. You'll see questions on here every couple of weeks about the comparison of white guys and black guys and the way they approach. Even some of the questions that are specifically racial, this is brought up as a reason why they like them. It's seen as masculine by them. But again, I think this has more to do with attractiveness.

[Frostie]

IF they weren't bitching they'd have nothing to say, end of it. Some women actually do have something decent to say, the rest of them don't know what the f*** they want.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with saying hi to people. For Mexicans its rude not to say hi to people even strangers it doesn't always mean they want to go out with you its just basic courtesy. I am "Latina" and I had a Native or Latino guy actually strike up a conversation with me today he kept asking me my age and other things, I felt uncomfortable but I said hi back, asked him why he was asking me so many questions and told him I was just walking my dog and I didn't talk to people. He kept his distance the whole time and politely went another way. Much better that all the creepy middle-aged white dudes say things like slut and whore at me when they realize I'm not interested. My tip is not be afraid speak clearly, look people in the face a few times and if you're walking keep walking.

[Anonymous]

the age of consent in mexico is like 12 so that may be why they like you

to me I like people talking to me as long as they have cool personalities, I'm a little more outgoing but I do think its weird if a guy asked for my name first because then I'd probably lie and give him a fake one. but if you don't wanna talk just give him a short one word answer and be obviously disinterested he'll get the hint

[Little-Hippie]

Things I got out of this post:

1. You're highly opposed to Mexicans who are seeking to reproduce

2. No one is good enough to talk to you unless they're blessing you or holding a door open for you. So ushers and priests are quite alright.

3. You automatically associate the attraction of men to young women with pedophilia for reasons that you haven't shared with us.

[myspacemybroke]

Fourteen year old alert! Fourteen year old alert!

[Asker]

you guys sure like 14 year olds then

[Frostie]

Lol, I believe he is implying you are acting like one, despite that might not be your physical age. :)

[myspacemybroke]

Indeedy