This one I can answer well.
I don't feel a need to do this, but I like testing the waters before I jump in. I'm not the kind of guy that will cheat, and I don't think it's cool to have a crush while your in a relationship, but whenever I'm single, I like to chat around, let all the girls know I'm a guy they can trust and at least build up a bit of a friendship with.
This works because whenever you get out of a relationship, if they're into you, they will give you time to cool off, and if your not cooling off, they'll be a friend.
The last thing a guy wants is to get out of a relationship and feel alone, you'd want that one close friend of the other gender that you both know could never be in a relationship because you know everything about eachother, you can rush to them whenever you need and vent and all that and they can do the same.
This kind of drifted but, thats kind of the jist of why I like talking to so many women, not to brag or anything, but to just have a friend or potentially another Special Someone.
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Im single at the moment and I found it easier to be honest from the start to tell the female that I am talking to other females, just as friend or sexual partners.. Some are okay with both and some are not. For me, at least, I've gotten a thanks and for not wasting there time.. Just be straight and honest with your interest..
Yes I have spend a lot of time thinking about this also!
Boosts his self-esteem
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For me I just find it easier to talk to women and would much rather hang out with them than other guys. It's nothing sexual or not because I find them attractive it's just easier for me.
I will tell you a trick - be different from the other girls and force him to take things very very slow - he will be afraid to give you up when he thinks about how hard he had to work to get his point with you.
Because if we didn't say we fully commit, then anyone is fair game. Women do that too. When I was dating my ex, she told me she had been talking to 3 guys on the side while we were in the "dating" stage. That's just the way it is. If you like him, go after what you want, don't complain about it
Because it's impractical to only talk to one. It takes too long and has too low a success rate.
Women don't do any work in this regard, so since men have to be the active one, they have to take opportunities as they come and always be trying to create opportunities. Waiting weeks or months to figure things out with one means many missed opportunities with others and just generally wastes a lot of time.Men are like bees... They go from flower to flower.
People shop around. By people I both men and women do this usually until they decide on someone - usually.
It’s not illegal to talk to other girls and just cause he is talking to other girls doesn’t mean he likes them. Guys don’t owe you their soul when taking to you. You women need to remove that entitled toxic mindset
Its like that when you date a popular guy.
Every girl wants to crash on her.
And the fact is funny guys, handsome guys gets all the girls.
Or the rich one , rich guys are heavily popular.Because we get congratulated for sleeping with lots of girls
Because they think they are maximizing their chances.
They're just outgoing people, guy or girl
Some people are just like thatof course it is only a problem when a guy talks with loads of girls.
When you as a WOMAN explore your thousands of options and whore yourself out then thats no problem at all.They’re players. Find decent guys.
He maybe gets better treatment when he lies
Cause he's an insecure beach.
You could ask the same with sexes reversed.
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