Is it too late to make him chase me?

[loveablecookiesxoxo]

Bf of 3 years loses interest in me because another girl played with his mind and he said I was bossy. He got with her (cheated) even if though he doesn't admit it. Month later they break up. He bumps into me apologizes for everything and wants to earn me back. I let him kiss me and get lovey dovey with me more than one account..(every time we bump to each other) as soon as we separate he makes no contact with. And when I called him he sounds blahhh and annoyed yet his grandma tells me he has a smile on his face when he talks to me :\ also I was doing some investigating because he still has me blocked on Facebook through my friends fb and my friend hinted to him that it was me...now I look crazy but I just don't want to get hurt again but I love him so much and he's changing into a different person. Telling me he's going to get tattoos and he's a busy person...etc... is it too late to attract him to me again

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Yeah I think it is too late.

Besides which I don't know why you'd want him back. First off, he's clearly an âsshole, one way or another. Because look at him. When he's near he talks about how he wants you, and then he has his fun, and suddenly he can't be âssed to give the slightest fuck about you. He plays games and toys with you, and has zero honesty. What's worse is, he cheated! You KNOW he cheated and when he didn't get everything he wanted, he came crawling back to you, only to play games with you.

Now, you're actually biting into the bate and getting hooked and looking into his life, even though he's being a total dickheâd. Even though he's still got you blocked. Even though he's trying to show you he doesn't care. Even though he's playing hot and cold games with you, and stringing you along. Even though the only way you can get an answer is through Facebook stalking.

Seriously though, I'm not trying to be cruel when I say this, but do you have any self respect? Why are you trying to chase this guy after all of that? Find someone else. Find someone better. If not that, if you can't date someone else right now then just kick his ass to the curb, cut off all contact and move on with your life. Pour yourself into work, hang with friends, hang with family, take up some kinda hobby, or go back to old ones, or even start personal projects. Whatever keeps you busy.

Point is, I think you seriously need to let go of this guy. You need him out of your life. He cheated once, and he lost you, and now you want him back? Well, once again, I don't think it's gonna happen, and even if by some chance he stops being an asshat and you get back together, I can pretty much guarantee, he'll cheat again. He'll just do it all over again. It's how cheaters work. You forgive them, and you basically told them it's OK, and they do it again. He's gonna see another girl, he's gonna do it again, and you'll do this all over again.

In short, yes it's too late. But consider that a blessing. Forget him. Get over him. He's not worth it. You're better than that. You deserve better than him.

[loveablecookiesxoxo]

Thank you very much for your honesty

[laterhaters]

Poem by me: (don't be rude about it)

A man lay in his bed

Thinking about the dead

For he was old and he was told nothing good last forever

[loveablecookiesxoxo]

I like it..and very true

[bel42]

He's not worth your time. I think he's just playing games. You should cut off all contact with him and just move on.

[loveablecookiesxoxo]

Thank u

[iXenomorph]

Just dump him permanently. He sounds like a prick.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I agree.

[loveablecookiesxoxo]

lol wasn't always like that :/ ...thank you thou