She literally gives me a headache and I don't know why.

[Anonymous]

This sounds weird but whenever I start to spend to much time with my girlfriend I start to gain a headache that feels like my head is being pierced through the middle or something. I think about her and I think she might be the cause of it( this doesn't seem to healthy to me)

what say you?

[redheadbabygirl]

I've heard of this happening before...and there are multiple possible reasons why.

1. Have you guys been together for a long time? If so, you might need some "away" time from each other to reevaluate your relationship and sort out your feelings. Often this will happen to long-time couples and it could either be a phase or something more serious and you need to figure it out.

2. Are the two of you compatible? If you're constantly having to "be someone else" around her to avoid trouble due to conflicts of personality, that's not healthy and can be emotionally exhausting. You can do that for a little while, but after a time it becomes too much and the relationship needs to end before both parties get hurt even worse.

3. Is there something you need to tell her or something she needs to tell you? Secrets kept by either person in a relationship can often cause a great deal of strain for both.

4. Are you going through a bad time in your life personally? Sometimes when this happens you just need some "alone time" and having another person around who is close to you (even if you love them) can feel terrible.

No matter what it is, there is obviously a problem and you need to be honest with your girlfriend about it. Bottling it up and pretending everything's fine and dandy is only going to cause more trouble in the long run.

Good luck! I hope this was helpful.

[Bohoo]

Hi, i have the same issue. I had complicated situation with a guy. Anyway-ever since we met and he was MR. Awesome i started to suffer from this right head side pain. This was increasing by every contact. Pain killers dont help, its not like a typical migrane. We ended things twice as it doesn't work anyway , and it dissappeared each time we stop see each other. We recently met for a coffee, the meeting was nice and friendlu BUT since then i have it back? How weird is that. I never met someone with similar issue:/ and i am really afraid

[finecute]

Thats not good that both of you are shy. where is the relationship going with you two being shy? nowhere. so what you need to do is talk to your girlfriend. Tell her sweet things and how your always going to be there for her if she needs anything, that way she will be more comfortable and open up to you. and you need to be open with her as well. tell her things that you never tell your guy friends, be emotionally connected to her. Once you guys do that, the shyness will be gone and your relationship will be taking another level.

[finecute]

wow, I never heard that before. Is she nagging, or doing something annoying to you? Or is it that you do not want to be bothered with her sometimes, and you just want to be left alone? Exactly what do you think the cause of this could be, because it is not normal to get a headache when you see your girl, if anything, your suppose to be happy, and your girl is suppose to be your stress reliever.

[Asker]

Well she isn't annoying but she is shy even around me because she cares about me so. But sometimes we just lay together and while we lay I feel content, no stress, and time suddenly runs in no time but I feel that maybe there is sumthin wrong... I think its her shyness, we both havnt fully opened up and its really hard because we are both insecure and shy but maybe I need to find someway to really shatter the ice. Other than that I donno

[PatriceONeal]

I can't be around women talking for more than a few minutes without an intense migraine coming on.

[Memphis895]

I would say maybe you have to break up with her before she gives you a stroke or a tumer

[headacheguy]

Even i'm suffering with exact same problem, I'm getting headache even if i talk to her on phone. Then i found explainable reason for it but not solution
Our astrological compatibility is worst, My birth star is Rohini and her's Ashlesha and they have worse compatibility.
If you are suffering with same problem, just check your birth star and your partners and check compatibility between them.
And if anyone finds solution for it please let me know.

[ivarei]

lol, sounds like she annoys the living daylights outta you...