Did I lose my chance?

[Anonymous]

This lady I like gave me the obvious sign she likes me but I didn't react because I got nervous. Now she won't pick up my calls or return my txt. What should I do? Did I lose my chance with her?

[shannon522]

I think you should wait a bit. The missed phone calls and unanswered texts could be due to her being busy or occupied with other matters. If she really like you bro she wouldn't have let her feelings slide that easily unless she's been hinting at you for a while but you kept avoiding it nervously for a while! Both of you are basically in the same boat: waiting for an answer. Since she won't return your calls or texts then text one last time explaining that you are apologetic for being nervous but you do have an interest and that you hope you can make it up to her through ( I don't know coffee or something to make the situation lessss awkward). If she doesn't respond, then it does mean you could have lost your chance but relationships are like trees. The more they grow and get taller the tougher it is to climb until you find the strongest branch. In other words you learned your lesson that feelings should never dictate logic. No matter how nervous you are about something, just go for it because opportunites will pass you by if you don't be ambitious !

[Asker]

Thx for the advce

[justaskin8888]

she's not interested. she doesn't know you enough to understand your behavior or to have a compelling reason beyond basic attraction to stick it out till you come around. that is reasonable; she's not superhuman. and besides, she shouldn't wait forever. If she's lost interest--which is intirely possible, its pointless to keep texting and calling. let it go.

[Babygurl2012]

I going through this right now with the guy I wanna date the problem is he been playing phone tag he will call and I miss it because I'm a very busy person I do like him a lot but by now he probably thinks I don't so give it a week then call back call her at a hour of which I think she should be busy Good luck

[Happening247]

Potential relationships have a window that is open for a limited time. Some re-open, most don't. When you have your window, jump through it while you can before it closes. This window has closed. Move on.