Did I fuck my chance up?

[Anonymous]

So I really like this guy. I don't know if he’s just shy or what not but he seems interested in person compared to over texting. I just thought about I was telling one of my guy friends about him and I showed him a picture of him and then his Snapchat avatar. I don’t have him on Snapchat but my friend tried adding him. I don’t think he did, but I was feeling pretty good so I don't know if he ended up adding him and I quickly unadded him. Did I just ruin my chance because my friend might’ve added him and I unadded him and the guy I like might think it’s weird? Maybe I’m overthinking this all, but I’m just worried that if this happened to you would you be creeped out and stay away from this individual or would you think nothing of it and see what happens?

[teamvic]

Mmm you're probably over thinking

If I liked the girl and it happened I'd think it might be a bit odd but it wouldn't ruin her chances, if I didn't like the girl its still think it's odd but I didn't like her anyway so it's not like she had a chance to begin with

So basically what I'm saying is if he likes you back then you'll be fine. If he doesn't then you never had a chance to begin with and it didn't hurt your chances anyway. You just never had any

[Asker]

Okay so I should be okay. I know I’m overthinking it but it’s just that I really like this guy and I wouldn’t know considering if my friend added him and then I quickly unadded him. Don’t want to come off as desperate but that makes sense.

[teamvic]

Yeah generally when you like someone overthinking is extremely easy to occur. But you just got to remember everything is a mindset.

Just put yourself in a 3rd person point of view and think about your situation for 2 other people and you're just spectating. And then with the information you have, come to a conclusion. It's what I do haha

[DerekC321]

If he likes you that shouldn't be a big deal at all.