Flirting advice - speaking in third person?

[Anonymous]

So I thought about doing this with a girl I like.

"you know I met this wonderful girl awhile back.

She has brown hair and brown eyes, She just has a

fascination for clothing design. I really think that is neat...

her name was [say her name]. Have you seen her around?"

What do you think lol?

[courtniX]

Ehh. Depends on the girl and how long you have been talking to her. I wouldn't mind it if I already liked the guy back. But if we just started talking, it would be a little cheesy and too much for me. However, different girls like different things.

[Daggersanctuary]

I agree. It sounds like something you'd get off a terrible romantic comedy.

[courtniX]

I have had a guy kinda do this third person thing to me before,. I had known him forna while tho, so didn't hold it against him. But, I also had had no interest in him from the beginning. It just all depends oh how much the girl likes you lol

I feel like there are better ways to flirt and show interest.

[Asker]

Well I'm glad I asked lol. What kinds of things do you find attractive? Or how do you like a guy to flirt with you?

[courtniX]

Thru text or in person?

[Asker]

person :)

[courtniX]

Hmm. Well, I love a guy that can make me laugh. I think it's cute when a guy makes fun of me a little bit, and picks a "fight." And I am personally extremely ticklish, so guys poke me and tickle me a lot. I love whenthey do cause it's a fun way for me to flirt and try to grab their hands to make them stop lol

[Vermi]

I have to agree with some of the others, it sounds like a line from a cheesy Disney movie. Like something an older relative/family friend would say if I was in 6 grade and having a bad day.

Just flirt naturally.

[may04]

I would talk in 3rd person back just cause it'd be fun! If you think her sense of humor would appreciate it then why not? It's dorky yes, but if she's dorky like that too then it's not a bad thing

[Anonymous]

Sorry, but it does sound kinda lame. Just stick with regular flirting unless she's your girlfriend who will find corny/slightly awkward stuff cute.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks for the advice. I'll stick to playful teasing...

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds good.

[Anonymous]

I do this with a guys, the other day he legit caught on which was a surprise. I was told him my week i saw (his name) at uni and he helped me with math.

They replied (sounds like a smart man) I replied yes he is a very smart man, and it was like a chain full of compliments. First time I actually hear him smile on the phone.

We are a bit nerdy, also a bit dorky but I the type of girl that thinks dork-ish things are cute does that mean I am Strange.

[madmisskelly]

Corny, sorry, but it's corny.

I would just be honest, tell her how you feel, and ask her if she wants to go to dinner some time.

[upood]

It's lame in my opinion. Dont' dance around it just be you and ask her out no third second fifth person.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl. If this type of humor isn't her cup of tea, you might just end up turning her off. I suggest being straightforward.

[NayaAbouzaid]

Awww , I think that is totally cute , go for it ;)

[acat321]

i think it's cute :)