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Usually seems to make them less honest more toxic macho or just cringe 😬!
Had to help both my brothers who tried self help. Some sisterly advice got them so much farther, and dates, and gfs!
Usually no. Guys will tell other guys what they think women want to hear. Instead we know what we want to hear so finding out from us is more beneficial.
If there's something specific to men I want to know about, I'll ask my boyfriend or a guy friend. I don't ask my girlfriends.
That's a good question. I read some online self-help advice to help me with my advice for publishing the first novel in my series, and most of them said "you never know until you try'
Trying is the easy part, lol. Where the anxiety comes in is 1. worrying no one will like it my books. 2. I'll get horrible reviews 3. The criticizism will be so bad, it'll make me want to quit, and the list goes on.
I did work really hard on those books, all four of them. Sometimes I wonder if I'm even a decent writer. But anyway, I think self-help does work for people that believe in themselves. It's about getting past that anxiety to make it work.
It depends how toxic the "target" person is. It's been my experience that only toxic women expect a guy to do that little dance.
Self help may help if the person has no game AT ALL. I've said this to Coach a couple times. I think dating advice is good for a beginner or some that needs some kind of a confidence builder to get them started in interacting with others. But real confidence comes from within. And there's no formula for interacting with people. Typically you can tell the good women from the bad because it's easier interacting with someone who has empathy. I'd imagine it's probably the same for women interacting with men.
Men are so clueless, they think we like to see their cringy shirtless pics. The truth is, most of us find them totally embarrassing. They also make the BIG mistake of listening to other men, so it is a blind leading the blind situation.
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So the real question is "does dating advice for male influencers or gurus help men get more women?"
Yeah, it can.. Especially if the man understands women.. But a lot of "self hate" is bad and is ultimately just giving more mind game "advice".. I watch this woman on YouTube "Courtney Ryan" because she gives men genuine and honest advice on fashion tips and how to actually attract women..
Are there actual self-help books about flirting? I think if you're utilizing a self-help book to improve an aspect of your life, perhaps you'll be more confident to flirt?
At my age it’s difficult to get back in shape.
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