Girls do you hate when guys show too much interest in you?

[adamcdavis]

does it annoy you when guys actually show interest in you? Every time I meet a girl it seems like they like me initially but then after I talk with them more and start to show interest they stop texting me a lot and stop paying attention to me as much.

[Muffinguru]

It depends on the kind of interest. Too much interest, such as texting 6 or more times a day, might give off the impression that the guy is very desperate and could be a potential clingy boyfriend if it happens to work out. Or, it could lead the girl to believe that the guy is trying to get into her pants. BUT, I'm not saying that this is all guys. And, the girls just might have realized that she is just not interested or thinks they are not compatible after getting to know the guy much better, and instead of leading the guy on anymore, she could be trying to break off the communication as nicely as she can with out hurting the guy anymore. Or, you could just be talking to girls that don't like to text as much or are very busy and don't text as often as you would like them to

There are so many reasons as to why they could be not texting, but that doesn't mean we don't like it when a guy shows interest, it just might not be the guy we think we are compatible with.

[adamcdavis]

ok so you don't like getting texted a lot = you don't like attention?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I don't like guys who act desperate.just because we have interest in each other doesn't mean I'm your new best friend.act like you have a life that doesn't revolve around me

[doratheexplorer]

Yeah, it bothers me a lot if a guy is "too" into me. It's cool if you show your interested but you need to show interest in other things such as academics or sports or even iron man (fav movie evaaa!) also not just that but also be interested in talking to other people .. keep your options open mister. show you are busy but you can always make time for "her"! Its very attractive and flattering if you do so

[adamcdavis]

I suck at talking to other people.

[angelprincess1]

no it don't...i actually like it..unless I don't like the guy..I get annoyed when guys think they can just stop paying attention and then start when they feel like it..It could be that you were too forward and she wasn't sure how she felt about you yet and you scared her away. Or it could be a mean way of saying she wants even more attention and is running away to see if you'll chase her. Either way I prefer guys that show interest...it is just that more attractive and appealing.. :)

[adamcdavis]

well if a girl never texts me I am not gonna text them back just saying. I will chase but only for a little I need some confirmation they still want me if I stop.

[angelprincess1]

lol how ha ha :)

[adamcdavis]

because you are in the exact same situation I was in.

[adamcdavis]

oops meant for that comment to be for your other answer.

[nermalinda]

I think I just don't want the guy to seem desperate. I wanna feel like he likes me, but not decide he totally loves me after like 2 dates.

[Anonymous]

No I like that , It's all about behavior . Once they got to know you , Maybe they found something wrong.

[adamcdavis]

idk what they would find wrong.

[angelprincess1]

p.s. please answer mine :)

[adamcdavis]

your question reminds me of myself in my last class during summer lol.

[angelprincess1]

woops commented on wrong one but how does it ha ha :)