Guys- If a girl asked you if you had any "big plans" tonight, how would you take it?

[Anonymous]

Would you think if was flirting or asking you out? would it make you curioius?

any thoughts appreciated. thanks

[JustChris]

All of the above that you mentioned - that she was flirting with me and a high possiblity that she asking me out so it would make me curious. Then I would ask her if she had any big plans and if she responds back with no and something like suggest a place to go out together then I would see it as she's interested in me. If she just responds with a no and I'm interested in her then I would suggest a place to go out together with just me and her and see what happens from there.

[ryanontario]

alot of times girls ask this and its meaningless , I get asked questions like that often by servers at a local pub and its just conversation on there part . its not very serious at all . unless she asking if I want to do something with her I wouldn't take it very seriously

[toulouse]

id just think she/ he was trying to make small talk.

i guess because if I wanted to ask someone out. id just do it. no foreplay.

so I never assume anything other than literally asking out, is an attempt to ask out.

[guy532]

She wants to do something with me.

[fradd]

Yes, that's an obvious way to ask someone out.