1) I matched with an introverted girl on a dating app and we had an 'outing' at a board game cafe on the first weekend. We had an amazing time and kept texting every day. She mentioned that her previous match was very weird and pushy, and that he made her feel uncomfortable.
2) Two weekends later, we went to a beautiful botanic garden. Everything went well but when I got home and texted her thanking her for the 'outing', she ignored my message. The next day she texted 'Hi' and we continued chatting as if the outing never took place. I sure hope that she wasn't upset.
3) This weekend we'll be visiting another touristy place, and I'm at a loss. Should I...
a) treat it as an outing,
b) treat it as a date,
c) just ask her? (How should I phrase my question?)
She ignored the message because it didn't require a comment from her, you only said a statement. If she texted you the next day and you now have plans to go out again then I would say things are good. As for the classification of your "outing", I don't treat it as a date unless the guy calls it one especially when meeting from an app. If you want clarification on what to call it, just ask. Do you know if she is looking for friends or a romantic partner?
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If you are alone with a bitch, and it's not work or professional, it's a date. You messed up by not demanding a BJ. When she tells you a different guy was pushy, she's actually telling you what she wants.
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