Asking a college girl to study with you?

[Anonymous]

How do y'all feel about this? If a guy asked you if you want to study with him (and you didn't really know him too well yet) how would perceive this?

Is this a quick way to get friend zoned?

Good way to meet someone and find out if there is chemistry?

Would you think that this guy likes you?

Would you say yes to a guy you don't really know or should this be eased into?

Thanks for the thoughts!

[neverhaveiever]

Well I would first try and make it a group thing, then go ahead and study one on one. Besides, when you are studying it's better with a group.

Is this a quick way to get friend zoned? No, but if she doesn't like you then she will friend zone you.

Good way to meet someone and find out if there is chemistry? Yes because you will have conversations on different subjects when you take breaks from studying.

Would you think that this guy likes you? Hmm.. Maybe yes or Maybe no. I wouldn't be able to tell till I see his behavior when we study.

Would you say yes to a guy you don't really know or should this be eased into? If I'm attracted, I would say yes! And be happy :) .. but if you are unsure of her feelings..ease into. (see first sentence)

[Lilac20]

Unless your the one that everyone goes to for tutoring if their failing some class, I think he could very well like you. After all there are other people that he could ask to study with him, so if your interested go on and study with him and while your cracking the books you get to be in a relaxed atmosphere and laugh about what was said and done in class, without the pressure of what to say on a date. So I definitely say go for it who knows it could lead to something more.

[gloomy]

i am not sure how I would react especially if I did not know the guy but I do not see anything wrong with asking you wil never know unless you ask right and girls can take this in many ways they may think you need help with some things in the class that you don't get or that yeah you may like her

[Healer]

its an OK way to meet someone, not really the best though. I think if you're really interested in somebody you should do something fun that you both enjoy. studying isn't really a good time to sit and discuss each other.

[thoughtful]

Be more direct. Just ask her out.