My crush is always nervous around me... Does he not like me?

[Anonymous]

He always is around me, and watching me and his friends seems to know me... I have noticed another "signs" that he like me as well, that is not the problem. But I would like to know why he can't be comfortable around me. Sometimes it feels like he doesn't like me doing that. Why he acts this way? Thanks

[aMuse]

You say " watching me" and "around me"... Do you even talk to each other at all yet? If not, break the ice. You could just be in a silent standoff, were you both are kind of attracted, but no one is talking... That awkward stale can make a lot of people nervous. The keep to getting comfortable with some is openness, communication, etc.

[Asker]

Tell me about it! I've tried to talk to him a few times, but he did not looked at him when I was approaching, so I wasn't going to bother him... But last week, he finally said 'hi' and smile at me. Its nothing, right?! Sometimes that situation with him gets so annoying that makes me wanting to give up. And then I remember that I'm kind of shy too, so its not on him to be blame.

[Asker]

*looked at me

[aMuse]

*key

So you're waiting for him to approach you? You know you want to talk to him so just take the initiative and get things going. =D Talk is just talk. No big deal. Get it started, and then see were it goes. Maybe it will bomb, maybe it will grow, one way or another, at least you will know. =)

[Asker]

For me its hard, because I'm really attracted to him... But I'll try. Thanks

[aMuse]

Good luck! =)