We've been together for ten months and things are beginning to get really serious. But he's beginning to become unbearable and possesive. I've never really done anything to give him the idea that I'm not trustworthy, but lately he's been going through my phone, asking who guys are and why I'm talking to them. I have nothing to hide and I let him read my entire conversations. He gets mad and says I don't need to be talking to any guys. It all got really bad when my friend cut his hair and sent me a picture asking what I thought and I said it looks really great. Then that's when the whole arguement started and he accused me of cheating on him and he knows that I'm deleting messages. I told him he was acting crazy.
& he kept following me around the house saying "just admit it" "you're ******* them aren't you" then out of annoyance I said I was (in vular details.) And I said that "he was way better than him" or something like that. and stuff I shouldn't have said just to piss him off because he was pissing me off. That's when he sorta lost it and he grabbed me from behind and slapped me in my face really hard. And he grabbed my shirt collar and began calling me names...
It was horrible, and I immediately started to cry and he let go and left and slammed the door. He came back hours later and tried to console me and he was apologizing a lot but I locked him out of the bedroom and I guess he slept on the couch. When I woke up this morning he had already left for work..
Sorry about all the details, it's just I haven't and probably won't tell anyone,and its good to let it out I guess. I'm sorta confused on what to do because growing up my dad, uncles, and brothers always told me to never allow that.
I don't want to throw everything with us away, but I'm very upset and sorta second guess him right now.. I don't want to be accused of cheating constantly..
Any experience or advice is appreciated because I have no one to talk to. (We moved to an apt far away from home)
& he kept following me around the house saying "just admit it" "you're ******* them aren't you" then out of annoyance I said I was (in vular details.) And I said that "he was way better than him" or something like that. and stuff I shouldn't have said just to piss him off because he was pissing me off. That's when he sorta lost it and he grabbed me from behind and slapped me in my face really hard. And he grabbed my shirt collar and began calling me names...
It was horrible, and I immediately started to cry and he let go and left and slammed the door. He came back hours later and tried to console me and he was apologizing a lot but I locked him out of the bedroom and I guess he slept on the couch. When I woke up this morning he had already left for work..
Sorry about all the details, it's just I haven't and probably won't tell anyone,and its good to let it out I guess. I'm sorta confused on what to do because growing up my dad, uncles, and brothers always told me to never allow that.
I don't want to throw everything with us away, but I'm very upset and sorta second guess him right now.. I don't want to be accused of cheating constantly..
Any experience or advice is appreciated because I have no one to talk to. (We moved to an apt far away from home)
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