Why do some people seek revenge after rejection?

[Anonymous]

The question speaks for itself?

Also when you get rejected, by an ugly girl is the feeling different from a pretty girl?

Do you get sad with a pretty girls rejection and angry with a ugly girl?

[miketension]

Believe me it seriously does not depends on how beautiful/ugly the girl is, it depends on how close the person was with you. There comes two scenarios:

1) Asked a date with a girl who is close friend

2) Asked a date with a girl whom you just met two days back

If he get rejected in the first case obviously he had spent time with the girl and he secretly liked him, both of them are friends for quite long time or in short span of time became close friend so if a girl rejects a close friend the amount of pain will be of highest level even if she is the ugliest girl in the world. She would be the most beautiful girl for that guy.Possible cause of revenge.Why not should he take it? Do you want him to chase you or follow you. He will definitely leave you the amount of pain you had given him you don't even know.But that revenge will soften with time.

In the second case, he will moveon with comfort but he will take revenge when you come back to him for sure.

[Romanceislost]

I'm not looking for an girl who is physically ugly so I never tried.

If an pretty girl I don't know reject me I would feel bad for all the day.

If an girl reject me after a long time I know her I would be in a terrible pain. And some people feed that pain with revenge. Why ? I can't tell you why.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't go by looks, but what vibe you get from that person. You feel some people closer then others right? That's because they share more of the similar views you do that lets you express yourself. Of course their will always be somebody that has features you desire because it fits your personality, but if your views don't match up then it'll never work. The amount of the hurt you get from a rejection depends on the connection you had with that person.

[beerY33]

nooo, I can take rejection gracefully.

[beerY33]

oh god, sorry, misread this

[beerY33]

rejection sucks, it's a huge fear for a lot of people and it takes some learning to be able to take it well.