I only attract older or taller women...why?

[Anonymous]

I'm not complaining but I realize that I only attract women who are either much older than me or taller than me. I haven't got a problem with this but I just think it's weird that I'm a 23 year old guy (almost 24) that looks young who attracts women who are like 30+ years. I love older women so it's not a problem for me and most of these women do the inititiating. Even weirder is that most of the girls who have liked me and the ones who approach me are taller than me most of the time. Again, I have no problem with this but it's just weird how I attract tall/taller women when I'm a short guy myself (I'm only 5'4'').

Girls my age and shorter girls and girls around my height don't give me any attention. Is this weird or what?

[emmabee11]

haha dude don't worry they are just perving on the younger guys hoping you will be their toy boys, I get older men 30 - 50 years trying to chat me up online all the time, most from 30 - 45 years lol, they just want me as their play thing, they still think they have a chance of being on top of their game again like they were in their 20's but they haven't got a fat chance unless a guy likes older women, but it's a small chance really. I find older men grose big time, I would only go for guys 4 - 6 years older and after that just no... lol. Just be honest with what age range you want and if you want someone your own height then just say so, the older women will still try to chance it of course, all you can do is just ignore them (believe me I've tried to tell all the older men I'm not interested but starting a convosation with them will make them think I'm still a little bit interested but lieing about it), so just don't give them any reason to think so, if people see you know what you want then that gives those you want to be interested in you more confidence to take a chance on you.

[theluvgame101]

I don't think it has to do with babyish thing. Women who aren't attracted to short guys think that way. The babyish thing has more to do with a fetish.

I think confidence has a lot to do with it...confidence is sexy and if you have a Napolean complex, a lot of women find it attractive. Are you an alpha type and do you come across as smart and authoritative? Older women tend to find that attractive so you'll get them in abundance.

You should also consider that short women have just as much of a complex about their height as men do. They tend to go for taller men, so you will hardly find shorter girls going for a short guy. She wants to make sure her babies won't suffer the same issues. Natural selection at play.

If you want younger and girls closer to your height, you'll have to the aggressor and go for them yourself. Hope you've got deep pockets!

[tdaniel7]

that is because you are a gentleman and a mature guy. Older women are much confident and know what they want and most already have had lots of life experiences. So they are willing to settle down and be there for you. Age has no limits. Now with the height issue... opposites always attract. its just a matter of how confident you feel about being the short one.

[emzy-89]

i have a friend who is pretty much in the same position, these women are just looking for a young play thing, just like much older men who do after younger girls.

[Asker]

and the height thing?

[emzy-89]

well let's face it, when you're our age it does add an extra element to the young look, for some reason people look at smaller people and automatically think that they're young, don't ask me why. I get it done to me all the time, I'm 23 and 5'0"

[irishgal]

You're probably too educated or mature for girls your own age. The tall thing, meh, a coincidence me thinks!

[missymarkath]

they probably think you are 'cute' you know what I mean?

[Asker]

you mean babyish?

[missymarkath]

yes.

[Asker]

why would grown women want to seduce a guy who looks babyish?

[Dionysos]

Cougar bait. Enjoy it. You're in for a wild time while it lasts.

[LilKim]

You probably look older than you are. And a lot of tall women and short men are passed over in the dating world. Theze women know this. So they go after you cause you'll more likely be available.

[Anonymous]

tall guys usually want shorter girls and older men are usually married or want younger girls . . . or your looking in the wrong place .

-plain&simple

[Asker]

elaborate please...

[Opinion Owner]

no

[Asker]

why not? clueless?

[Opinion Owner]

yes

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's the places you're having out? Or you around older people more or girls your own age?

[Anonymous]

How many older and taller women have you had sex with?

[Asker]

Three. Two older and one taller. But whenever I go to bars or clubs I'm always getting approached by older and taller women.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you have an old soul that attracts pumas and cougars. Just be thankful you aren't attracting the old turkey buzzards. Lol

[TangerineFire1]

You must be really adorable.

[Anonymous]

opposites attract ;)