I have a question about this guy Alex. I always went to the schools library to study there, then all of a sudden one day this guy Alex stared at me from across the hallway, and after 10 min. he came to the room where I was. This guys Alex used to stare at me, but never smiled, and he was around me all the time, I stared back at him, because I was attracted to him, but I never smiled , because I was shy and I didn't know why he was staring at me (I still don't know if he was playing around or if he was really into me). Then one day I saw him sitting next to a girl, he was almost leaning on her. (Now I know they are just friends. But at that time) I got hurt and when he saw me, he sat straight and looked at his laptop like nothing was going on. Then he glanced at me, but as he saw me still looking at both of them he quickly looked away. Alex knows my brother and when my brother is around Alex is ignoring me like I don't exist. After that I ignored him because I was hurt and I thought he was a player that was playing with my feelings. The next day he was trying to lock eyes, but I still ignored him for a week. Then after a month or two I showed up again at the library. The first day I saw Alex, he acted normal like nothing was going on he locked eyes a few times and quickly looked away. He got my attention again and I was wondering what was going on. The second time I saw Alex, he was walking the same direction as I was, he was walking slowly behind me, and when Alex friend saw us he smiled at us, but then his friend looked at Alex and stopped smiling. After that day he ignored me he even avoided me. I couldn't find him in the same area. I have the feeling that all his friends are looking at me when I walk through the hallway. And one day a friend of mine was talking to Alex because they're friends too, I walked their direction and stood behind my friend. He saw me and then suddenly said that he wanted to go home. One of his friends was staring the whole time at me. And Alex was staring at me too, but then he turned and looked away. I had to go home too so I got my jacket and said goodbye to my friend and left the building. Later I talked to my friend and she said Alex still stayed after I left. So now I know for sure he is avoiding me. But why is he avoiding me, he doesn't even know me, because we never talked.. does he hate me? Is it because he still has feelings for me? Or is he just a player that was never in to me and is avoiding me because he is not interested anymore?
Why is he avoiding and ignoring me?
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