How should a 6'1, 125lb tall skinny guy feel being outlifted in weightlifting by a 4'9, 190lb short fat girl?

[ARONN]

My girlfriend and I engaged in a weightlifting contest to find out which one of us could lift a bigger, heavier barbell overhead. At the time, I stood 6-foot-1 and I weighed 125 pounds while she stood 4-foot-9 and she weighed 190 pounds. There was a big, heavy, fully-loaded barbell placed on the floor in my apartment. She went first. She lifted the barbell from the floor and then she easily swung it up over her shoulders and then she easily lifted it over her head. When it came my turn, I lifted the barbell from the floor but when I tried to lift it over my head, I couldn't even get it over my shoulders. In fact, I couldn't even get it above my thighs! I felt embarrassed losing to her because I am a guy while she is a girl and I was also embarrassed losing to her because I am way taller than she is. Afterward, she and I stood in front of each other. She was looking way up at me while I was looking way down at her when she and I suddenly began kissing each other passionately so I knew she wasn't turned off after she outlifted me but she didn't know I was embarrassed (even though I was turned on!) after being outlifted by her. How should such a tall skinny guy like me feel after he is so easily outlifted in weightlifting by such a short fat girl like her?

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Sorry about the all-caps title!

[Theguyoverthere]

I go to the gym frequently and see plenty of people who are out of shape lifting heavier than me. Thing is, heavier people can lift heavier weights. A lot of people have to set goals based on their bodyweight. Most people use their bodyweight as a rule of thumb to determine their lifts. Weight lifting and getting in shape is very proportional to a person's bodyweight. I used to be 120 pounds myself but I was never embarrassed about such things at all.

I don't think it's nice to be calling her fat and all though. How would she feel if she saw this question?

[bruvleigh]

a bit embarrased if we are honest...

mate you are LIGHT for your height I mean seriously light, that can't be healthy

take me I'm 6'3 which is only 2 inches taller and 16 stone (oops Americans work in pounds, that's 224 lbs)

im a big guy but not massive, wow I don't know any guys 6 ft or taller that are any lighter than 168 lbs

[blackwaterhattie]

If I were a guy, I would think that's awesome. Now if someone breaks into your house while you're sleeping, SHE gets to go investigate because she's the strong one and can whip the intruder's ass while you stay in bed and call the cops. Gender equality rulz.

[FourStar]

You should feel pathetic are you malnourished or something plus you girlfriend is abosolutely huge and being heavy and short means you can lift more also you should start eating, I'm surprisedd she doesn't crush you in bed.

[sexy_nerd]

Idk, my bro is 187cm tall but weighs 80 kg, so he is at least wiry and athletic if not strong, so i haven't seen him get out wrestled by anyone, plus, he took aikido

[CourtJester]

Don't feel embarrassed, use it as motivation. Start lifting bruh.

[ArieWild17]

Um don't feel embarrassed everyone has their limits but if it does bother you that much just keep working out and soon you will progress

[NovemberJoseph]

6 ft 1, 130 lbs... That's when you know you gotta start lifting brah.
I recommend you start eating too.

[Klaatu51]

i guess the man probably. i think taller means more strength i guess

[heartbroke]

Haha I am 4'11 and I am a cna I lift more weight in a day then a lot of people do

[Owls191]

go lift and eat a sh*t load of food. Your way too skinny. you could put on another 40lbs easy.

[Moloch]

Who cares how you SHOULD feel, feel how you feel and then move on. If it really bothered you, then get your ass in a gym and start working out.

[Anonymous]

I wasn't that short or stocky but I could out lift a lot of guys. Even some that were bigger then me.

[mammaof4]

Whats up with this question

[mammaof4]

I am 4'11 and my cousin is 5'8 and I can easily out lift him with no problem just because were short dont mean we can't lift I lift everyday

[Arwens-Fire]

This story is ridiculous.Put it on Craigslist.

[katkaintkwit]

you called her fat? that's not nice.

[Anonymous]

Your 6'1 and weigh 125 lbs? You are thin!

[Anonymous]

Take your shame fetish stories somewhere else...

[Anonymous]

6'1' 125 lbs are you for real that's skinny .

[Anonymous]

ALL CAPS!