Is it okay to ignore a guy after he rejected me?

[Anonymous]

he ignored me after I asked him out never replied, but now he's trying to talk again say hi and stuff acting like everythings okay...

[britannny]

I think he probably ignored you asking him out because he is spineless. I think it's possible that he likes you only as a friend, and doesn't have the balls to tell you. Some people are p****** and they are TERRIFIED of rejecting someone, and they aren't capable of handling situations that require them to be honest with someone in a very mature way. The reason he keeps talking to you (I assume, anyway) is because he still wants to be friends with you, and he wants everything to be cool between you two.

But, not even giving you a response was WAY rude, and you don't have to talk to him anymore, if you don't want to. That's fine.

[Asker]

yea he couldve responded to keep the friendship even say he's dating someone else...

but I can't be friends with him anymore I'm not comfortable around a guy that led me on and rejected me cause I'm not attractive to him

[Ghibli]

If you're not attracted to him, why you asked him out in the first place?

[why-makoto-kun]

Yes, of course, until you feel like being civil. You don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to. Silent treatment in a relationship/friendship is not okay, but this is different stuff.

[Anonymous]

Say hi bit after that be distant.don't give him much attention.your done with him

[Ghibli]

There is nothing wrong with a girl trying to win over a guy, after he curved her. Maybe he's the kind of guy who takes relationships very seriously and not trying to only look for a random hookup up. And just because if a girl makes the first few moves on a guy, it doesn't mean she's easy, she just wants that particular guy cause she's him as a gentleman, who is worth trying to win over.

[bDizzie]

Sure. And be honest with him if he asks why you're being different.

[kimberlypersad]

Definitely ignore him, there's no reason letting him talk to you if he rejected you in the beginning.

[Ghibli]

But look at it like this, when guys get rejected by some women, and try again, them women change their minds about him and decides to give him a chance, so why can't it sometimes be like after a girl has been rejected by a guy, she won't try to win him over?