Girls- how do guys hit on you?

[washize]

Mainly idiots and douche bags. Not because men are idiots or douche bags, but because My age group seems to believe that women are attracted to men who behave like wife beaters.

There is this "alpha omega" idea going around that you have to treat a woman like a worthless cow to get her panties wet.

I'm sure the girls who have a submissive fetish are into that. But My fetish isn't in line with that.

Cat calls, cursing at me, or insinuating you want to stick your penis in me without even considering if I'm interested or not is a total turn off.

My generation just has no clue on how to interact socially. I am interested in casual sex, but I'm not going to randomly hook up with some shlub because he asked. ''

You have to be careful today. I need PROOF that you don't have STD's, aren't a murder/rapist, and that you aren't going to rob me if I go back to yours, or bring you to mine.

Ignorant/sexist/degrading comments and suggestions just make me think you're going to wear my skin after you're done screwing my eye socket. No thank you.

Generally I don't have this problem with older men, however older men are far more intimidated by my youth and attractiveness. Older men are better at doing the mating call shuffle, they have better skills when it comes to chatting, timing, and discussing a casual arrangement.

[MaskofInsanity]

I'm not going to include stupid stuff like honking, unnecessary/unauthentic flattery, man handling and whistling.

I generally see two patterns in relatively successful approaches.

The first is when I'm just out and about - a guy might come up to me, introduce himself, ask how my day is going and ask if he can take me out for coffee/a drink. This is rare, but impressive. It takes a lot of balls, I reckon.

The second is when I'm out at a bar or club. I know people scoff at such scenarios because they think the guy just wants sex/hook up - but on many occasions I've spent the evening chatting to one guy, who eventually asks for my number and after frequent contact asks me out on a date, etc.

What kind of guys do I attract? Quite a wide variety, surprisingly. Usually white, but ethnicity varies (a lot of Aussies cos I'm in Australia, as well as British and Irish - but we have a lot of those immigrants so it just makes sense). Personalities and appearances vary greatly.

Why do I think I appeal to guys? F*ck knows. I'm not bad looking and I think my mannerisms make me appear confident.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

The usual whistle and holler.

The usual car honk.

Then there is the usual, "excuse me my name is bleep, I just wanted to say you look beautiful"

There is also the usual "wow, you are really pretty, or you look good or etc."

There is also kind gesture bullsh*t, "I wouldn't wanna see a pretty lady like you carry all these groceries or don't worry I will buy it for you."

over the internet, "hey sexy, hey beautiful...etc"

I sorta appeal to all guys of all age groups and ethnicities and races. I can't pinpoint exactly the most common anything.

funny story, one day I was on my way to a diner...and this one guy peeped me from his car. Then came out of his car, followed me and straight up asked me for my number. He said he wanted to marry me, he could change my life. I literally said, I am happy with my life and declined on the offer. Dudes are crazy.

[confugirl]

It's usually either extremely sleazy or extremely clumsy guys. Very few guys actually just say hello, they always try out their pick up lines on me. I don't understand why they think that would work. The clumsy guys do say hello, but they give me no feedback. They just stand there and expect me to say something when they don't help me at all. If they asked questions or talked about something interesting, then I would stick around. No, it's just endless small-talk. So I just walk away from that.

[stillagoodgirl]

It changed back to what I was use to where they straight up ask for my phone number I find it a little rude though

[lauramor]

I think I attract different guys, but I guess most fo them are normal guys, not jerks and not shy.

[Anonymous]

i get approached by different guys all the time, I don't know what is my appeal haha

[dommage]

I think I appeal guys because of my feminine clothes and how easy going I am. The guys that usually approach me are kind of nerds or jocks

[Anonymous]

Mainly idiots and douche bags. It's gotten so that any guy who approaches me, I would automatically assume they're an idiot or a douche bag until they prove they're not.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's usually idiots and over confident dbags. They approach me because I'm good looking. Otherwise I wouldn't be approached. They approach me with a charming smile but after a short conversation, I can tell he's a dbag. Most guys in my age are pretty stupid and lame. And then guys question why we date older guys. Um, probably because are more mature than you.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Confidence and eye contact. 👍