Are really flat chested women not sexually attractive?

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are really flat chested women not sexually attractive? I'm literally flat, I do not have "small breasts" I can't fit a 32AAA cup. I am not skinny so its out of proportion to my curvy hips and butt. I'm 18 in a week, so I can get implants, but I'd preferably like to know a real man's opinion before I go ahead with invasive surgery. I realize there's that whole "if a guy loves you it won't matter" but I find it difficult to believe a guy would want to stay with someone as flat as I am

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So a few comments:

1) for questions like this the answers could be a lot better if you posted a picture. I'm not suggesting you have your face in it, but you'll get better results for a "what's right/wrong with my body? is it attractive enough/hot/etc" type question if you put on a bikini and take a couple of pics from different angles leaving off your face. Barring that, at least link to a pic you find somewhere on the web of a girl with a similar body.

2) Flat chested women CAN be sexually attractive. Sexual attraction will depend on the whole package so to speak. It will also depend on the person being sexually attracted, and what his/her preferences are. So don't sweat that. Now for me, personally, a pair of big firm natural breasts is incredibly arousing, but that doesn't mean a flat-chested girl couldn't or hasn't turned me on. You mention a curvy butt and hips. Throw on some yoga pants, and I'm guessing guys get turned on.

3) Regarding surgery, it's invasive and expensive and a lot to put your body through. And unfortunately, in your case, it may not look very good. Again, one guy's opinion here, but I find implants work best on girls who already have enough breast tissue to fully cover the implant and retain a "real" appearance. That less boob you have to start with, the smaller the implant can be that would still look good and not like you just bolted on 2 grapefruit halves to your chest (see for example Tori Spelliing). Implants work better if they're smaller than the original boobs but can improve their shape and fill them out a bit (see Malene Espensen).

Hope that helps.

Janson · Accepted Answer

if a guy gets hung up on your breast size, well that says a lot about him. Many attractive women out there who are flat chested so..

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. I'm an A cup which is pretty small and have had no problems with men or getting a boyfriend. Every man has a preference, and yes there ARE men who prefer small (though they are in the minority) however *most* men simply don't care.

If he's interested in you, your breast size won't make a difference. And plus, why would you want a guy who doesn't like you JUST because your breasts are small anyway? There are plenty of men who will be fine with it, facial attractiveness and personality matter more. And also, real boobs of ANY size are always better than fake boobs.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I didn't have boobs til after I turned 21.  I had to gain weight and lose it, and somehow the tatas stayed.  I've still contemplated implants, just because I LIKE big boobs, but ulitimately I don't think it would be worth it since I at least have SOMETHING now, and my guy likes them just the way they are.  I do have two GF's that recently got them because they are extremely flat chested like yourself and they both love them.  However, they are both in commited relationships, and they are both 28 or older.  Don't make that decision at such a tender young age, just please don't.

kangaru · Accepted Answer

They are still guys out there who would still like, just like guys who would still go for girls with flat butt. Please don't alter yourself to fit into what people claim beauty should be.

sammysamson84 · Answer

is it really that hard to believe that there are guys out there who look at girls and don't see just a bunch of ass and t*ts?

make an educated guess ... would I rather want to date a nice girl, or a pair of fake t*ts?

but let's assume you'll get those implants ... what will change? some more guys will probably notice you ... but do you really want the attention of guys who would only want to date you because you changed your looks with a bit of silicone? what do you think ... would they be attracted to a pair of t*ts, or to *you*?

just a few questions to think about ...

Meedo · Answer

Look..

I would wait with this surgery stuff.. you haven't really given yourself a chance to experience dating and to see for yourself how different tastes men have ..

To be quite honest with you .. I do like boobs.. but they stopped being my priority and now I am more an ass man... one thing you have to remember is that your boobs will grow when you get pregnant and breastfeed ...

The most important thing that draws me to a girl and can get me on my knees is her face . I had butterflies from girls that were flat chested !

Wait with this surgery until you are 30 or something. then reassess the situation then . you are still developing..

But if this is destroying your self esteem.. then you have to weigh the pros cons.. if you eventually decide on it, make sure the doctor knows what he is doing !

Paulbunon · Answer

Yes flat chested women are very attractive only date women with small breasts look at women with big breasts I won't download p*rn with women with big breasts small breasts only. And as flat breasted to very small breasted women are very attractive for me personally anything much bigger than a C I can't even get a hard on, women say that there's they got more on the breast yes they do but I've found that women with small Brests have a better personality when the one great big ones.
And before some woman jumps on here and tells me that I just racial towards big breasts my mom has double D's my grandmother had double D's too, neither of them needed Braws I'm used perky big to real big boobs. And of course this is only opinion but in my opinion smaller the better I hope this helps the ladies that are wondering, out

kheserthorpe · Answer

I like flat chested women. I know other men who do as well. And I do mean 'like' not just 'willing to overlook'. That said most guys who like small breasted women like fairly thin women, or thin with an ass.

To be blunt I don't trust your judgement in whether you're 'not skinny'.

-0x0- · Answer

Depends on the guy.

Loads of guys seem to love super thin girls, in many countries it is the optimum of attractiveness. Just look at celebrities, most of them have very little.

To me though yeah, its a huge negative.

To worry about it when you're not even 17 though is stupid. My girlfriend has some pretty nice curves. When she was 18 though she was a stick. Most girls don't develop that stuff properly until their 20s.

LameGeek · Answer

I personally ONLY find girls attractive that have smaller breasts. For me larger breasts (anything larger than a B cup) have always given the sense of the woman being way over weight, even when they are not. My preference is for A cup size and below. But Alison not nonexistent either. Short, slender and small breasts may also make you seem younger than you are for well into old age. This may be why some nationalitys appeare younger to others by a couple of decades sometimes.

kairon156 · Answer

although I do like A cup to med C cup. I can't say flat chested girls are a turn on or a turn off, I haven't seen many flat chested girls.

if you do get implants don't go for anything crazy like D cup, a B cup is more than enough boob in my mind.

Just to add my 2nd Girlfriend had A cup boobs and I thought she was very sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

if your really short I would really find it hot... I had this girl flash me and she was flat chested. With no chest. I told her take it all off don't stop there don't tease me. Had she it would of all turned me on. She went back to her boyfreind and didn't do it he she mmm... The whole thing... yes...

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys actually like flat-chested girl, myself includeds. It's more attractive on petite or skinny women, but wouldn't lose hope and get implants just yet. I know a girl that went from almost flat to large A-cups between 18 and 20, so you may not be done growing yet either. I'd give it awhile before you do something as drastic as getting inplants. Inplants look and feel fake, and a lot of guys don't like them, you may be better off with natural AAA's or AA's than with fake B's for instance.

skinnygirllover · Answer

PLEASE DO NOT GET ANY WEATHER BALLOONS IMPLANTED IN YOUR CHEST! You will eventually find someone that likes you the way that you are.

I wouldn't find it at all difficult to stay with a flat chested girlfriend because personally, I prefer smaller breasts even if they're almost non-existent. Anything bigger than a handful is a waste for me. Sooner or later you'll eventually find a boyfriend that appreciates the same thing that I do as well...you'll see.

pickledxtofu · Answer

Most won't aren't attracted to flat chests Small boobs? Yes Flat chests? No And guys have their preferences just as women do. A majority of guys will overlook a flat chest for a pretty face though

qwer1234 · Answer

Don't get surgery. Especially not for a man. Changing yourself for others is clearly NOT the road to true happiness. I bet there are guys who will like you for who you really are.

CelestialWolf · Answer

Honestly big breasts are highly overrated. I love flat chested girls! More than a mouthful is just a waste! All joking aside, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a flat chest. Many guys find that a huge turn on.

DA_VIEWZ · Answer

Anything less than 32aaa I find attractive on women. If I'm dating a women who is 32aaa or more, then I'm pretty much just attracted to her face and personality. Making kids wouldn't be that great of a task for me to do. It would be more of a chore because I would do it for her pleasure, not for mine. As a matter of fact, I would rather pursue platonic relationships with women who are 32aaa or more.

danni89 · Answer

Plenty of women with small boobs are super sexy!  Don't worry about it--work what you've got.

Anonymous · Answer

I still find them sexually attractive. I'm not going around looking for t*ts to date. Some girls are actually worth more than that. Not sure if you're aware.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Guys pick me over girls with boobs and I can hardly fit into a 32a. Ass>titties any day😁😁😁

Anonymous · Answer

I find women with flat chests more attractive than women with med-large breasts. Pixie cut on a flat girl, to die for. I don’t know why I have this preference, but my heart skips beats when I see it. Even when I think about it.

Implants? Don't do it! You're a rare beauty - keep it that way. Don't cave in to superficiality!

Anonymous · Answer

Not just saying this, but I would destroy a petite girl with nice hips and a great ass. A small girl with big features is nothing a guy would ignore

Anonymous · Answer

I must admit I don't find small boobs attractive.  But some guys do. There's no point in getting implants, as they look fake anyway.

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