Polls: Flirting

My voice is deep and thick. However, should I talk calm and cute or with an aggressive hardcore style?

Like if someone talks to you at the supermarket, or you're working, and you just strike up a convo with a randon stranger, or a customer strikes up a convo with you, or you ask a co-worker that you don't talk to a lot, about what they like to do outside of work, etc

So I’ve been messaging this girl for a few days and she said that we’re better off friends because I don’t know how to be dominant. Then she sends me a video of her smoking listening to a song and making suggestive moves. Then she was like “what do you think?” And then I told her I thought she was hot. She was like “you should say this” and proceeded to make flirts. And when I did that she liked it. So I asked her “do I have a chance with you or no?” And she said “flirty friends”. To which I said “I need an answer lol” and she said “flirty friends”. So now I’m confused. Do I have a chance with her or not? In your experience does “flirty friends” ever lead to something more

Like touch them on the back, shoulder, arm, etc

Whether is was out of the blue, or if it was relevant to a convo, that you and them were having, like you and them were talking about people that you found cute, and they hit you with that question

Even when talking to someone that you don't really know well, you're only nervous, if you find that cute/handsome/pretty, if that person, has a bad reputation/weird/creepy, or has an intimidating presence

If a co-worker goes out of your way for you, (offers you rides, snacks, etc) she likes you, at least platonically

If a stranger or someone working at their job (a store, real estate agent, etc) goes out of their way for you, you're probably attractive

If you say "I'm not cute lol, and someone responds with "didn't you say your brother told you not to say that", is the persons way of you saying you are cute

If you generally make eye contact with strangers, or if they look at you without you looking at them, you're noticable/have a good strong presence

I have been getting mixed messages about this. I go to the gym often and see girls I wanna ask out but at the same time many people say not to at the gym. This doesn't make sense to me because fitness is important to me in a partner so isn't a gym a great place to ask? And if not then were can a guy who's athletic ask out an athletic girl?

I know some people who don't go out much, but still get a decent amount of attention when they go out (women will whisper when they leave, stare them down, they've been checked out, when they weren't paying attention, at least a couple of times) and usually when they see a woman, the woman will at least smile at them, but a few don't make eye contact. I think one time, a few women came into a store, and told someone, that they were trying to holler at one of the guys. Also, they'll have a woman or two hit them up on social,.

Like if you say something like this personality trait that you possess is very sexy, and they respond to that, by saying Thank you haha, or if you tell the person how talented they are, and they respond with emojis, like 🤝🤝🙂🙂🙂. Or if you send them heart eyes, while responding to their Tiktok, or Facebook story, and they send hearts back, Im sure that's a way of saying that they appreciate that you think they look good.

Would you say more guys or girls are clueless when it comes to realizing someone is attracted to you?

I have quite a few female friends, but they’re exactly that - friends I’ve known, some since we were teens. I’ve realized lately that I flirt with almost all of them. Is that normal?