Which gender would you say is more clueless to realize when someone likes them?

[Still-alive]

Would you say more guys or girls are clueless when it comes to realizing someone is attracted to you?

Men

Women

It's not gender specific. depends on the individual

[ManOnFire]

Men. Because men are taught that if a woman likes you she's going to show it in the exact same way a guy would, when this very rarely happens. It's not men's fault. Women often try to hide it when they like a guy, or they will do conflicting things - what women call "hints" but are poor expressions of interest - that will just make a guy figure she's not really into him. Also, most women want men to think they don't like a guy and that he's jumping the gun, but then when she does and he's not seeing it, they get upset! Lol.

But there are always clues even in women's weird ways of trying not to let them be seen, but most men don't see them because they're taught to expect women to show direct interest back like men do.

[normalice]

Both are equally unaware of what it means when the other gender likes them.

[Still-alive]

i'd agree.. i've seen far too many 'what does it mean' posts by girls on here. its not just a guy issue lol

[Bethany22]

Probably men, because they're not good at the subtle signs. BUT if it's a girl they're really attracted to, then they'll be just as bad as women in terms of looking for all kinds of clues. Just look at the flirting category of this website for your answer.

[beebella]

I think guys.

Then, on the other hand, you have some guys who think you're flirting with them when you're really not flirting with them at all. 😂

[Still-alive]

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ewM2APSIN30

Reminds me of this short here. like whaaa? lol

[beebella]

Apparently, my way of flirting is acting like I don't see you when you're standing 5 feet away from me. 🤣

[Still-alive]

Sounds a bit counter intuitive there i dunno isabel lol :P

[Apple1996]

For sure men! They never notice or get our hints 🙄

[Still-alive]

alright give an example of a hint you'd give. im curious :P

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Guys deliberately pretend actually

[Pohjolan]

Do tell. I'm fairly certain that these "hints" are things that women who are not interested do as well thus them not actually being hints but normal behaviour.

[Joshydavid25]

Definitely men... For multiple reasons, but top 2 in my opinion are because guy don't get attention like women do, leading women to be able to see the signs clearly.. But also because women are not as straight forward as guys.. Especially nowadays.. Some women are so secretive with their affection that they almost don't even show it at all.. Don't get me wrong there are plenty of women that let you know right off the bat that they like you.. But it's not likely you'll find many like that.

[blueonblack22]

Men typically don’t have as strong intuition as women. Also women are more likely to beat around the bush on this one.

From what I’ve noticed is women typically say/do too little or occasionally say/do too much. Most of them don’t have to develop “game” because usually the work is already done for them. Most don’t like taking risks either.

[Unit1]

It's not that men are "clueless" about women liking them (although in my case I am 100% sure that women don't like me or else I wouldn't be single for so long).

It's that women don't show it. Not one little bit. And they expect us to read their minds. We cannot read minds.

If women showed us at least somewhat, most of us would no longer be "clueless" 😆 I promise.

So I say it's split kind of evenly.

[Pohjolan]

I would say men but mostly due to men being less covert about it when they are into someone and are not pussyteasing.

Like the idea of a guy rubbing his erect penis against a gal only to reject her would be absurd.

Also women apparently communicate with each other about their "signals" but all do improv on their own.

[smne35]

If your ankle to poll everyone in this world I bet you would f find out that is 50/50 and I'm sure that's with not everything across the board, but no need to go further but I don't Believe it's based on one gender but equally

[IslaTheWitch]

I think it is an individual thing.

Also, many women are not straightforward in showing their feelings, making it harder for men to read their signals.

[Lisia]

I feel like men, 'cause if you don't like 'em, they think you like 'em and if you like 'em, they think you don't like 'em 🙄

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

😂😂yes that's same for women too

[WhitneySnow]

I think it’s both. Both genders can be shy about telling someone they like them, and it can be hard to know if someone likes you if they don’t make it obvious.

[Meropatrick]

Totally men. Women are very good at understanding their surrondings and social dynamics even subtle ones. They know where they r in a heirarchy and where others stand. Who likes them and who loathe them. Men r socially Challanged really.

[tzdc21]

I will say men. But let's be honest... many women are not straight forward with their "hints" so it also falls in them too.

[menina]

I would say it's usually men. The last guy I liked said that he had no idea that I was into him. 😂😂 And I wasn't surprised 😂😂

[Chayce]

Men. Women send us a paragraph explaining how they have feelings for us and we reply back saying “that’s crazy” LMAO

[LiamJHayden]

I am oblivious, which is weird because I have no fear in approaching. For some reason I have a blind spot when a girl is interested.

[letthefire80]

I think I'm clueless differentiating men who really like me, or men who are just trying to have sex with me...

[Charliefretz329]

We usually don’t have a clue. But women know when we stare and spend extra time with them lol

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Both genders it's pretty clueless but i think women are more clueless

[valentina4eva]

defff men😂😂 always cluelessss!!🤣

[ProbablyClueless]

Women. WOMEN. Women, without a doubt.

[jamesgoldman]

As an oblivious man, I'll say men