Polls: Flirting

I was having a meeting with a guy who is really attractive and we were vibing and just really into the conversation. Unconsciously, I was talking to him and straight up winked at him! I didn't even realize that I was doing it until he kinda called me out...then HE winked Back at me...

Do you men find that attractive if a girl winks at you?

Will you wink back?

Is the wink a cute way of flirting and will you be more or less attracted to someone because of it...

So I was talking to some friends about, what they found to be the most attractive eye color and it was quite interesting to see what people thought.

So please pick your favorite in the poll and if you can give a short explanation :-)

By the way I know that all eye colors aren't represented, but you can only make a poll with 5 options, so I picked the most common and I had to leave out some of the less common eye colors: Black, Amber, Pink/Red (Albino), Yellow and Purple.

I just want to add that, I know eye color isn't important when dealing with relationships or love, I am just asking purely out of curiosity, it is like asking big boobs or small boobs, brunette or blond, it doesn't really matter as long as you love the person, but it is still interesting to see what people think and why they think as such.

I've started using a cocoa butter lotion over my body every night, and I really love the light, sweet smell it has. I don't wear perfume because it messes with my allergies, so I think the cocoa butter might end up being my regular scent.

Do most guys like the smell of cocoa butter, do you find it repulsing, or are you indifferent?

My crush is studying abroad and he's gone. We both liked each other, I felt that and the only reason why he isn't taking one step forward is because he's leaving, he doesn't wanted to leave me waiting. So we ended before really started. I may not see him in a few months at least. So I think you guys have someone who you like but can't be with them... How long does it take to forget them? And will you still like them even you can't be together?

I've been friends with this guy for a while, but I've never had any physical contact with him, no high fives or hugs or anything like that. The other day he came up t me and just grabbed me in a big hug, then let me go because he'd hit my neck by mistake and I'd made a noise, and started hysterically laughing. Was he just being friendly? Does hugging a friend that's a girl from behind mean anything to you?

So there's this guy that I've really liked for the past six months or so. He knows how I feel but still I've always tried to treat him like all my other friends, which is generously. I like to cook for my friends and do nice things for them.

So when I was moving, he asked me if I needed help and I said that it would be great that in exchange, he and his friend could stay at my place until they were able to move into their new place, I would take care of all the food and stuff and then I would also help them move their things as well. So anyway, it turns out that after that happened, he went behind my back and told everyone that I'm this crazy girl who's in in love with him and forced him to help me move my stuff...never mind that I helped him as well. I didn't hear about this until tonight.

It's made me think of all the other insensitive things he's done, like when I helped him find an ATM so he could get a cab home and we ended up in an abandoned mall; we sat and chatted and then he casually said, "if we were together, this would be the most romantic moment of your life, right?" What kind of guy says that to someone who has feelings for him?!

So anyway, I've decided in lieu of all this that I want him out of my life, because he's completely selfish and uncaring for someone who's done so much for him and because he's wantonly teases me about my feelings for him.

So what would you do, would just ignore him and cut off contact, delete him from Facebook, etc. Or would you confront him and tell him that he's a despicable person for doing that to someone who didn't deserve to be treated like something to walked on.

This happened a few years back when I was 15. It was really weird. He's 8 years older than me. We had always been close buddies, but this kind of crossed a line. He took me to my first party and I got a little silly. When we got back, I wanted to stay up and chat about life. I went and sat on his floor. He somehow got the idea that I was sick apparently? and so he got out of bed and let me sleep there for a while.

A bit later though, he got up and was like hmm cmon, and we went back to the room I was sleeping in and got in bed together. I was really confused. I thought we were just buddies staying up to chat... he eventually started giving me a back rub and then when I kind of faked falling asleep he put his hand on my butt! He also slept with his arm around me. It was really weird. He didn't try to kiss me though, thank goodness.

It was just all around awkward and I was really confused. I was 15 at the time and he was 23. My aunt woke up that night and came up the stairs and started screaming at him because he was in bed with me. The next morning was so awkward.

He and I have never been close since. His brother (my other cousin) said that he might have drunkenly fallen asleep and thought I was one of his gf's. I don't know though... didn't seem like he was asleep. There was definitely a hand on my ass and that was weird. We're related and he's so much older than me! ah, so gross.