Should I Stop Cooking For Him?

[BlckGrl]

I cook very well; I have been cooking since I was 7 years old. I often even make new recipes and try new things; He goes to work eats burgers comes home drinks a bunch of beer and the dinner is left untouched. I solely pay for the food and feel like it's a waste because he can't make room for a 3 or 4 course dinner but can make room for subway, Mc Donalds, and burger king. What waste of food! he's 30 and becoming fat he says its muscle but it's all in his stomach and hurts when he is on top of me, his mom thinks I cook too much and that's why he's fat yet it's the beer. Should I just cook for myself?

[RavVid]

Well if his mom says not to... when you stop you can say take it up with her.

It is disrespectful.

[BlckGrl]

His mom thinks I my cooking is making him fat. He doesn't eat my meals just bk, subway, mc Donald's and alcohol. How am I disrespectful?

[RavVid]

He is disrespectful of your effort.

[Jessikaah91]

If he won't appreciate the effort you went through to make him food and eat it then yeh don't bother cooking for him because it's a waste of food.

[CaptainLegal]

Yep, stop cooking for him, you're wasting your time amd money to cook for him. He needs to moderate his drinking and start working out.

[BlckGrl]

Yes I tell him this often but he rather drink then save to buy a car he's 30 it's so sad

[CaptainLegal]

Maybe it's time for you to find someone else, this kind of lifestyle he has will keep depressing you more and more with time.

[BlckGrl]

I've been trying but it's hard to leave and this area has to many requirements for an apt

[CaptainLegal]

Damn

[AI Opinion]

Hey, I totally get where you're coming from. As a fellow food enthusiast, it's truly disheartening when the meals you craft with love and creativity go unappreciated. From my own experiences, nothing beats the joy of sharing good food with someone who really enjoys it. Considering the situation, maybe it’s time to dial it back a bit and just cook for yourself. This doesn’t mean you can’t ever cook for him again, but it might be a good opportunity for him to miss and appreciate your culinary skills. Plus, this gives you some space to enjoy your cooking without feeling it’s wasted. Remember, cooking is as much about self-expression and pleasure as it is about nourishment. Don't let anyone's lack of appreciation spoil that for you. 🍕🍝 Keep doing what you love, and who knows, he might start seeing what he's been missing out on!

[JonCobretti]

He clearly isn't interested in your food, so of course stop it

[Billlewis]

Maybe; trust your instincts.

[BlckGrl]

which would be to stop cooking.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am.