How do you feel about eating out alone?

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I have gone to a lot of events, the movies, group activities, alone, but I've never eaten out alone. I don't mean fast food, but like a legit sit down restaurant. To be honest, it would be a struggle to not just look at my phone and probably not really enjoy the meal feeling awkward and such.

A lot of my friends are married off, busy with the kids, busy with everything and everyone, so there is far less opportunity to hang out with them, and a lot of my family lives out of state, and I'm currently single, so I'm considering just going and doing it because I love food, love to try new restaurants, and I'm getting tired of waiting on someone to go try something new on the food scene.

What are your thoughts on eating out alone? Do you do it regularly? Would you never be caught dead eating alone? Do you feel sad for someone eating out alone?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I've went alone a couple times. You get good food (hopefully), drinks, and no stress. That's what you get when you go to a dine-in restaurant. You get what you pay for.

It's definitely more fun with company and good conversation, but going alone can be peaceful and if you want to just zen out, it's not a bad option.

But honestly, I'd be good just staying home and grilling my own steak, making a quick kale and grape tomato salad, and a bottle of wine. More food, more booze, more bang for your buck.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

I often do so. I know that girls dislike going to a cafe or movie alone whilst guys just do what they want to do.

Can't say that I understand that. It is not as if people stare at solitary women at a cafe table. In fact it is a way of meeting people.

So yeah go alone. You can certainly meet people, make friends and maybe meet someone special. Cafes are better I think because it is less formal and more conducive to interacting.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

It's not ideal, because I was raised to see meals as opportunities for connection and unit, but sometimes that's not possible and so... you've got to do what you've got to do.

I usually make an experience out of it, smiling at the host/hostess, greeting and making small talk with the bartender, and having a grand old time on my own. Do I prefer to eat with a friend or loved one? Yes. Am I going to beg for anyone's company? No.

CherryLove007 · Accepted Answer

I eat out at my favorite hotel all the time alone... after my doctors apt because it is right across the street. What's the big deal? It's me time.

James The Foodie · Accepted Answer

Eating out alone is a delightful experience, almost meditative. 🍽️ It allows you to focus entirely on the food and atmosphere, making it a personal and enriching occasion. I've had memorable solo meals in bustling Tokyo izakayas, savoring sushi, and in quaint Italian trattorias with homemade pasta. There's a unique freedom in choosing exactly where and what to eat, without having to compromise. It might feel awkward initially, but embracing the moment can turn it into an empowering ritual. It’s about connecting with the meal, not the company, enhancing the enjoyment of your culinary adventure.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I love it. I'll get extra sides, absolutely wild combinations and scarf the food down like I never learned any manners.

And as a professionsl/social power tool it's pretty unbeatable to constantly be like "No, I had a big lunch at yard house earlier" and when they ask who you were with you just look em up and down and say "you want to come next time?" 😂

as if I have this endless phone book of people elbowing eachother to have a lunch with me. You gotta be able to put a group together when needed to pull it off though.

Bricealan · Answer

Many times. I go to Pelican Hill Resort in Newport Beach in the Winter, during the rain, and nobody is there and I have the peace and quiet all to myself to enjoy the food and the solitude, and watch the rain fall on the huge open pool and see the mist rise from it. Nothing quite like it.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'm perfectly fine with it I do it probably once a month. There's a peaceful little italian place where I live that's just very cozy, quiet and the food is fantastic and I very much enjoy just sitting there drinking, eating and taking my time soaking it up and relaxing.

For an 1-2 hours I just sit there and not worry about a single thing.

Staximus · Answer

I usually only do it when I'm driving somewhere far and want to get out of the car for a little bit, or sometimes when I'm on lunch break at a job. In both of those situations I usually get take out or fast food. Sitting in a restaurant by yourself eating seems weird.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

It's very peaceful 😊 😀

Just don't come across as a homeless or smelly person, that's always why I try to be as humble and smiley + not creepily smiley either - if I'm just enjoying my food or just plain get takeaway

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I eat out alone quite often actually. Normally I make the decision kind of spur-of-the-moment, so it isn't practical to coordinate it with anyone else.

Likes2drive · Answer

I do it once in a while, but it is kind of boring, but if I feel like having a nice meal and treating myself, then I go out and do it and the same with movies. Of course I’d rather go with someone, but it’s not like women are lining up to date me.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

I wouldn't do it. That's what takeout or delivery is for.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I feel like if I'm eating her out, she really ought to be there.

Unycorn · Answer

Yes sure. That is a thing I do only for me! Having a good meal.

exitseven · Answer

I was teaching a course at night. I used to go out to dinner by myself before class. I sort of enjoyed it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am 99% sure I have never eaten out alone.

Crankor · Answer

Nothing wrong with it. I usually do takeout on the days im by myself though. Just a matter of preference of what environment you want to be in while doing so

beenherebefore · Answer

I'd definitely eat by myself if I'm out and hungry. Done it plenty of times.

RedWine9 · Answer

Kinda weird especially when a guy while thinking they can sit with me when I’m at a hotel. I ussley order out or room services or cook myself.

Godihateyou · Answer

I've never done anything alone. Im 44 years old and a twin. I've had someone from conception to today

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer eating at home. But I have no issues with eating alone, even if it's out in some restaurant.

Anonymous · Answer

I would HOPE SO!! I don't like sharing her with other guys!!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Well I have absolutely no friends so I do it more times than I can even count

drummerdude25 · Answer

I do it all the time…

Anonymous · Answer

Well she he has no sex but money. She he has to show off to get sex.

bunnyboo24 · Answer

I love eating alone:)

BadApple69 · Answer

I’ve done it but don’t like it.

ibodi · Answer

Same but I enjoy it.

jazzy34 · Answer

It’s great. I do it all the time. 😊

DavyJ · Answer

No issue-just getting used to it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Peaceful and less costly.

msc545 · Answer

It makes me very uncomfortable.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm fine with it i do it once in a while

sonic1000 · Answer

Fine

Massageman · Answer

Seldom do.

Twalli · Answer

I used to do it.

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

I'm fine with it.

Mayorofbobaville · Answer

I love it

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