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Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material (Page 3)
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Hey! Sluts and whores are people too, with a distinct personality and quality. They have rights!
We should respect that! We should respect women regardless of how they dress or act, why judge and condemn?
We should. I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but if you're not, I actually agree.
"2. Be intelligent and well spoken
Go on, have an opinion and don't be afraid to voice it. If you feel something is wrong or you don't like something, say it. Don't be a sheep, be a leader. Take Emma Watson for example. She even gives ME wood."
Sure intelligence is something you control right... WRONG.
And Emma Watson that feminist, in that stupid he for she... makes to puke
Otherwise a good take though.
I think you're slut shaming. You seem like a feminist, but being a feminist means that you respect a woman's decision to dress/act how she wants. Personally, I don't like dressing slutty and I like being intelligent but I won't slut shame or talk down on a girl who does the opposite. It's all about CHOICE. And you should respect other people for who they are. Doesn't mean you have to be friends with them by any means, but you shouldn't talk down on people who live a different lifestyle than you.
If you're saying how women should be to please men, you're the problem. And you're single, I wonder what's wrong with you if you seem to know what gets a man interested in a relationship? Hmm.
Is there really such a thing as a slut, though?
I don't think there is. It's a concept we created. The girl who created this Mytake is such an internal misogynist.
I agree with the 3 reasons but stopped reading when you used Emma Twatson as a reference for intelligent and well spoken. She spews misinformation and lies, she is far from intelligent. Anyone who, easily and without fact checking, gets caught up in feminist ideology, is NOT intelligent. It takes actual brain power to check facts and make logical comparisons, which she is obviously incapable of.
I can't agree more with this take !! Great job girl ! 😃👌
Thanks babyxx
U're welcome 😘😘
Reason 1 and 3 should be none of your concern.
myTake explains the whole slut shaming bs in detail
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11488-sex-sluts-relationships
Reason 2 is the only valid one in my opinion. If a woman wants a boyfriend she must offer more than just sex other wise she is at most a friend with benefits.
Exactly my opinion.
No, if people think she is a slut, they won't want to date her long-term.
@Mesonfielde A woman can have promiscuous sex and still have a great personality.
That's not true @Mesonfielde. At least not with every guy. I don't care if she's a "slut", much less if PEOPLE THINK she's a slut. I don't understand. Why is it such a big deal? Sure, infidelity is bad, and if you mean "slut" in that way (that she has sexual affairs while in a monogamous relationship)... I can somewhat fathom it.
Please, if any reader can explain to me and provide a real convincing reason as to why a girl's sexual past matters this much, I would be MORE than happy. This is just, again, petty insecurities and judgments people are perpetuating within themselves, at least most of the time. I don't see how or why it should affect a guy if she has had a lot of sexual encounters in the past. In fact, even if my girl had a history of cheating, I would still give her a chance, if she had demonstrated that she worked on things (i. e. getting therapy, etc.) and made it look like she wasn't going to cheat this time.
I think that is where the subjectivity of "good" comes to play. You could say a girl or guy who smokes can still have a great personality, but I would disagree.
Bottom line: it's unfair to simply dismiss someone on their past. Is it being implied that these people who may have screwed up (cheating, etc.) or even just had a lot of sexual encounters in the past, simply don't deserve another chance at love at all. That's why, even if a girl had a questionable past, if she demonstrated that she had done work on herself and has made an active effort to resolve her issues, I would give her a chance, because what, does she now never deserve to find love again? Moreover, the past is the past.
@R3d_Anonymous it is an indicator of qualities that I don't find appealing.
@Mesonfielde The difference between promiscuity and smoking or engaging in other unhealthy behaviours is vast.
Promiscuity is about having fun and as long as it is done with contraception it doesn't harm anyone.
Smoking and other drugs affect a person's health. In the case of smoking, the very act is done publicly and not only affects the individual but those around them and can cause illnesses from secondhand smoking.
However someone who smokes is not necessarily a bad person, they just have a bad habit. I've met plenty of smokers who were really interesting people. Although I did not have any close relationships with them because of health concerns, I would never see the as bad people for doing something I was against.
As risky as promiscuity is, I just group it with all those other bad habits.
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Please, any girls who read this, listen to this nice lady. (sorry I'm late :P )
You were right on track up until the end. NO ONE wants to be around ANY KIND of bitch. Just necause you mask it by saying "im a badass" or "independent" does not make it any more attractive.
She isn't a bitch though. You missed her point. She was reporting against critics telling her that her body was masculine. You can't expect a girl to be a quiet little lamb and have people attacking her.
That is nice, men still dont like bitches, no matter what justification they give. Also there is a difference between being a bitch, and not being a doormat which too many people confuse.
I think she stayed well within the lines of not being a bitch.
I've never seen a woman dress like the woman in the photo. That's a bit extreme😕.
Come to the city in melbourne. Ratchet central.
Lol oh really?
Yep... very much so
I really like this take. Self respect and standards, two things people lack nowadays.
Thak you :)
This is a good take. I would say to ladies Respect your self by the way you dress because you don't need tons of make up and you can dress modestly and Still Be Super Sexy but at least you have some classes :)
Wow thanks for those who voted for me. Starfishlover you have a lot of wisdom and class. Which is very sexy and attractive ;)
You could be nothing part one is like, and everything the second part of your take is like, but if you don't have a pretty face and/or a slim body, you're in an even lower position and even less girlfriend material than the whores and the stupid as fuck but hot bitches.
I get it, BUT lets stop dogging on females on do one on why women do respect or want you as a boyfriend and NO is has nothing to do with dick sizes, or how much money you make. Like FORREAL NOBODY talks about that
I have no idea what you just said...
dont respect
What i meant to say but my phone acts up. Is we keep talking about females being respected by men. Why dont we ever talk about men being respected by women.
That will be in my next take :)
My next take is up now :P
I think the biggest issue is with the way men communicate with women. Is not that respect isn't there it's just not communicated. Personally I have never initiated sex or discussions. I love you I just want to know when I'm once when you want to see me again
Emma Watson is an annoying, whinny bitch. Also, she's hypocritical.
Tell me why, I want a reason to tell other people that like her that she is a bitch.
She's a walking contradiction... a much privileged white girl who claims she's being treated unfairly... really pathetic.
Fair enough that you think she is annoying and whiny. But why do you think that she is hypocritical and a walking contradiction? I have listened to a lot she has to say and I have never gotten that impression. She has said that she has felt treated unfairly because of her gender on some occasions, but that she still considers herself to be very lucky. She is for GENDER equality and has listed reasons why men are treated unfairly as well as women. She might speak more about women, but then again she is a woman, and therefore probably has more insight about women's struggles. And lets be honest, women are worse of than men in terms of equality, especially in some parts of the world.
I hope more women read this, can't date, hang or associate with any lady that isn't serious about her self, weak or disrespectful. Strong women are attractive!
I like you :-)
Good take! sounds a bit angry, but I can completely agree with all of it.
Lmao!!! I can't even take you seriously! you're on here trying to preach give advice of how to become girlfriend material for men... Then say you want to be a lesbian with someone lol ridiculous over it! You just dumbed down your whole perspective! Lol did you put the lesbian thing in so guys could like it? that what you think men like? STOP IT!!!
She's an insecure attention whore. Plain and simple.
Eh, most guys I know prefer trashy girls. Yet, these same guys blatantly LIE and say "I can't respect a girl unless she's classy."
I actually wish I knew more "trashy" girls, because I want to have sex.
Man, if I said all of this I'd be called a sexist and have my post flagged, thanks!
I don't care for Ronda Rousey, she is kind of a punk and her clean fighting record will not last forever.
I like the term "DNB" though.