What about when your not really in good terms with a girl and you keep looking at her every now and then and she asks you in front of everyone don't you think it's a little weird you go out of your way to talk to me
All I can say is when it comes to girls around my age, if they are sad, all I do is talk nicely to them, say something sweet and perhaps give her a hug AND things are usually fine afterwards.
It's easy once you've lived with 1 a while. Can practically predict the next 5 sentences that are going to come out of their mouths when you get to know them well. I even recorded myself with my phone one time saying I bet I could get my girlfriend to pull out a catalogue in the next 10 minutes. Put the football game on and its the 1st thing she did to try and distract me from it. Look at these curtains wouldn't they suit the carpet? I love this table. I showed it to my mates and they were pissing themselves laughing. Social media wasn't about back then or i would've put it online
Its a trap. If you do show you are jealous, then you become the bad guy. In our society, being insecure, or not trusting your partner to a level of having blind faith, will get you treated like you fail as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
You have to play the bad guy. Otherwise you end up not saying anything while your girlfriend clearly carries on an affair, just because you feel insecure to admit you don't feel comfortable with your girlfriend going out with her "friend" and hanging out at his apartment alone with him. It's a trap you can't avoid.
My point is that showing you care, often gets twisted into you being insecure. A lot of guys are so insecure, that just being accused of being insecure shuts them up and they end up putting up with all sorts of things. Sometimes you just have to speak up, and let your feelings be known, even if others want to try and twist things to make you seem unreasonable.
Yes. That is how the trap is sprung. People have feelings, including insecurities, and jealousy that is only normal. Unfortunately people take these normal feelings and twist them to make the people that admit to them seem unreasonable.
See boys, this is what I am talking about. The damn twists and turns and mind games. I knew all of these sayings and more. It gets quite annoying when you know a mind game is being played on you. by the way, If a girl asks if she looks fat you say: " I like you they way you are. But imagine if you worked out a little bit (or sized down to x number), you would look amazing". Along those lines. It's called a backhanded compliment. It confuses the girl so they don't know how to react.
It doesn't confuse an intelligent girl? Girls understand each other better just like how boys understand each other. Boys are more rational psychologically and girls are emotional psychologically. That's a fact. Not sure where you were coming from with that. As for my reply, I was just being honest. That's one of my pet peeves. You HAVE to be politically correct. It's the truth, whether people like it or not. Sugar coating things only hurts the person down the line.
So when you said you expected your husband within 1-3 months what you really meant was "you better get him asap (within a week) before I do everything in my power to make sure you're never allowed back on this site again!"?
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What about when your not really in good terms with a girl and you keep looking at her every now and then and she asks you in front of everyone don't you think it's a little weird you go out of your way to talk to me
if a girl actually says that i would think she's a bitch. -.- especially in front of others.
Yes, this actually happened
Why... whyyyy must you tell the menfolk our secret! Whyyyyy you cute little bird?
hahaha i figured they could use a little help! š
To be honest, I don't even understand what I mean sometimes.
LOL, story of my life šš
I wonder what I do to get Anna to say:
"Iād love to go out with you!ā
Hmmmmm... this might require deep thought 😘😜
hahaha, sorry i can't help u answer that question ;P
Lmao, it's all good. I already know the answer šš
oOoOoOo interesting. š
I'll let you just suffer in suspense now as you wonder what I'm thinking.
Have fun suffering š
HOW RUDE!
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All I can say is when it comes to girls around my age, if they are sad, all I do is talk nicely to them, say something sweet and perhaps give her a hug AND things are usually fine afterwards.
thats very nice of u =]
As confusing a Formula 1 steering wheel :P
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hahaha, hmm that looks too simple :P
Ugh... I urgently need a women language translator! I just noticed that I do not speak women language or even comprehend it!
hahaha well i hope this helps a little bit!
It's easy once you've lived with 1 a while. Can practically predict the next 5 sentences that are going to come out of their mouths when you get to know them well. I even recorded myself with my phone one time saying I bet I could get my girlfriend to pull out a catalogue in the next 10 minutes. Put the football game on and its the 1st thing she did to try and distract me from it. Look at these curtains wouldn't they suit the carpet? I love this table. I showed it to my mates and they were pissing themselves laughing. Social media wasn't about back then or i would've put it online
I loved your post and these are so true.
I spite of all the confusing a woman can be I still totally LOVE women! You women are the best of life...
Thanks:)
Haha thats so sweet! Much love back to you guys :P
I don't know if the phallic light switch was meant to be ironic or not, but it made me laugh. :) Good Take!
haha, good eye :P
thanks!
"Sorry I missed your callā
I may or may not have wanted to talk to you at that time. "
I am so guilty of this. My husband says I am so some timing because of it. Lol
Nice. ..
haha that's so cute š
*applause* PREACH
(I also apologize for the feminist shitload that may or may not attack you for this MyTake. Great + funny take)
aha THANKS! xx
oh it's ok i can take it :D glad u liked it!
āThis guy keeps messaging meā <- O. o dangerous lol
Nice cheat sheet :)
hahaha ;P
glad u liked it.
Its a trap. If you do show you are jealous, then you become the bad guy. In our society, being insecure, or not trusting your partner to a level of having blind faith, will get you treated like you fail as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
@heavensgift2girls
I'm gonna proudly be the badguy then..
You have to play the bad guy. Otherwise you end up not saying anything while your girlfriend clearly carries on an affair, just because you feel insecure to admit you don't feel comfortable with your girlfriend going out with her "friend" and hanging out at his apartment alone with him. It's a trap you can't avoid.
@heavensgift2girls
That's cynical.. I was kidding man, showing I care doesn't make me the "badguy"
My point is that showing you care, often gets twisted into you being insecure. A lot of guys are so insecure, that just being accused of being insecure shuts them up and they end up putting up with all sorts of things. Sometimes you just have to speak up, and let your feelings be known, even if others want to try and twist things to make you seem unreasonable.
@heavensgift2girls
I hear you but doesn't showing jealously = speaking up?
Yes. That is how the trap is sprung. People have feelings, including insecurities, and jealousy that is only normal. Unfortunately people take these normal feelings and twist them to make the people that admit to them seem unreasonable.
See boys, this is what I am talking about. The damn twists and turns and mind games. I knew all of these sayings and more. It gets quite annoying when you know a mind game is being played on you. by the way, If a girl asks if she looks fat you say: " I like you they way you are. But imagine if you worked out a little bit (or sized down to x number), you would look amazing". Along those lines. It's called a backhanded compliment. It confuses the girl so they don't know how to react.
No, it doesn't confuse an (intelligent) girl. It's an insult.
Granted, someone shouldn't ask if they don't want a real answer... but still, you could be nice.
It doesn't confuse an intelligent girl? Girls understand each other better just like how boys understand each other. Boys are more rational psychologically and girls are emotional psychologically. That's a fact. Not sure where you were coming from with that. As for my reply, I was just being honest. That's one of my pet peeves. You HAVE to be politically correct. It's the truth, whether people like it or not. Sugar coating things only hurts the person down the line.
So when you said you expected your husband within 1-3 months what you really meant was "you better get him asap (within a week) before I do everything in my power to make sure you're never allowed back on this site again!"?
LOL! maybeeeee maybeeee not! :D
This stuff is gold!
Ya, I've always thought that woman are amazing at talking but terrible at communicating. These just support it further.
u could be right, although please remember we can be very straightforward as well. we aren't vague all the time. i stressed that at the start =]
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Man, I personally didn't relate to this...
That's because I'm one of a kind!
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This was meant for your "what guys say"...
Clicked on the wrong tab!
lol no problem.
thanks for confirming why i prefer women who won't talk too much or at least leave when i tell them to.
if you take it that way then you're welcome.
is there another way to take it?
evidently, as shown in another 84 opinions =]
i guess people like nonsense
Very interesting and complicated at the same time :P
thanks =]
Omg! This might be the best My Take I've ever read! So true! Bravo!! 👏👏👏👏👏
that is a MASSIVE compliment sheesh!
thank you hun! xx
You're very welcome! You did a GREAT JOB!! It was so true and down to earth! The pictures fit as well! Way to go! š
aw gosh, thanks so much <3
Yep!! š
This is hilarious :D You have at least 30 minutes of quality stand up material here
lol i do? damn i better consider that as a side profession then!