Yet women later on in life keep saying they just want to find a "nice" guy... when there were several of them they probably rejected in the past... its just ridiculous
I am only attracted to nice, humble guys. No, I'm not in denial. I actually can't stand arrogant guys and I am not attracted to them in the slightest. Modesty wins for me.
@sherbearee As I have said before it is not "confidence" or "dominance" it is narcissism and, lack of empathy. People who confuse the two need to learn to differentiate.
Its what you mistake for the magical panty-dropping "confidence" you all drool over. He doesn't give a shit about you, so he isn't nervous about losing you. No nervousness, or fear, he always acts like he knows everything and he is the shit, it can sound like confidence but its not anything like it. Every time I see a woman go for an asshole player who brags about how much he doesn't give a shit about women (when its just us guys) she always goes on and on about how "confident" he is. Its not confidence at all.
@genuinlysensitive i think you're focusing on a specifically dim-witted populous. Not all women are like that - obviously some REALLY don't see it, while others are in for the fun (or status).
@asker no not just them. I know many highly educated women, in thier late 20s and early 30s who act like this. It isn't just stupid populations or young women.
People mistake their not caring for confidence. They don't really truly care about anyone. Their not confident they just don't care what happens to other people cause their a jerk.
these indian men siddharth malhotra and hrithik roshan are way more handsome than any of those hollywood actors, indian men are just underrated. and whom do i find attractive? as a straight man, out of western women it would be scarlett johannsen and sofia vergara the most, but i find deepika padukone and aishwarya rai much cuter
just searched up sidharth malhotra, and yeah he's attractive. But i don't really like the other guy tho. Are you indian? That might explain some things - we're influenced by the people around us the most.
and yes, we are indeed influenced, why do u think people say indians are unattractive though i just showed you a few good looking ones, because the indians you see in hollywood are unattractive.
Power... as good looking woman i can totally be honest why, sometiems, i let myslef a luxury to behave like a total bitch and men still do whatever, to gain my affection.😜😈😂
I mean yes. Girls get attracted to bad boys but on the Internet, we hear that it's 90% of the time that girls will go for ONLY bad boys, but in real life, they choose nice/shy/nerdy/average guys too. Yeah, bad boys score higher.
I never did say only "bad boys" win. It's just a bit of insight on WHY some women choose to be with them. Plus, (according to opinions here) many women despise them.
lool no no I never meant to be confrontational to you, either! X) It's just that I'm getting so many notifications/arguments that im typing "in the zone" aha anyway, thanks for the input :)
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Yet women later on in life keep saying they just want to find a "nice" guy... when there were several of them they probably rejected in the past... its just ridiculous
yeah, eventually people learn :)
I am only attracted to nice, humble guys. No, I'm not in denial. I actually can't stand arrogant guys and I am not attracted to them in the slightest. Modesty wins for me.
That's good :)
Nice take but lol isn't that last guy the actor from criminal minds 😂
thanks lol
and yeeah shemar moore :) criminal minds is amazing haha
I seriously can't find the appeal in this whole bad boy thing
that's a good thing x)
lol this was a funny take. I always need humor at the end of the day :)
pah wrote it just for you!
Lol love it when asker is fiesty. You remind me of a gerbil
When did I ever ask a question?
And watch it, sir. Im armed.
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Its impossible not to ask a question on this site... duh.
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now you are disarmed
ahhh touché.
oh not you didn't!!!
Plus, you disarmed an imposter! I'm much fatter and cuter.
You mean you are a furry bowling ball?
... yes. i like that description
Hopefully no one drops you we can't have the western hemisphere collapsing
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Then don't tempt me! x)
more girls need to be chill like you asker
This was always something I found odd about women, because I don't find any these traits attractive in the opposite sex (other than maybe confidence).
Maybe it's because men tend to prefer being the dominant one... so when a woman acts dominating, it's a turn off for you? i don't know...
@sherbearee As I have said before it is not "confidence" or "dominance" it is narcissism and, lack of empathy. People who confuse the two need to learn to differentiate.
@genuinlysensitive
sure, call it whatever you wish, but could you explain why women are attracted to the "narcissism and, lack of empathy."?
Its what you mistake for the magical panty-dropping "confidence" you all drool over. He doesn't give a shit about you, so he isn't nervous about losing you. No nervousness, or fear, he always acts like he knows everything and he is the shit, it can sound like confidence but its not anything like it. Every time I see a woman go for an asshole player who brags about how much he doesn't give a shit about women (when its just us guys) she always goes on and on about how "confident" he is. Its not confidence at all.
@genuinlysensitive i think you're focusing on a specifically dim-witted populous. Not all women are like that - obviously some REALLY don't see it, while others are in for the fun (or status).
@asker no not just them. I know many highly educated women, in thier late 20s and early 30s who act like this. It isn't just stupid populations or young women.
I actually really agree with this. Although most wouldn't admit it, "bad boys" can be a turn on
thanks for opinion!
Some won't admit it because they genuinely don't actually like "bad boys"...
Yeah, bad boys are "different", is that why we have so many bad boys nowadays?
It's more that there are more "wanna-be" "bad boys" nowadays.
Doesn't matter. Even the "wannabe" bad boys get more girls than they deserve
personally i think this kind of take is way over written, but i like your version
actually it would be kinda cool if i could ban a specific mytake topic :P
Yeah I agree with you actually, I was just scrolling through the home page and realized how crowded it is with the same stuff.
but thanks :)
Funny that you posted shemar moore, he is hot as hell but he does come across as a bit arrogant
yeah, kinda hot tempered in criminal minds, too...
I didn't even realize - i just find him attractive x)
I follow his Facebook page
describes how i felt about my boyfriend when i first met him
and he turned out alright?
yes♡
aw, Im really glad to hear :)
People mistake their not caring for confidence. They don't really truly care about anyone. Their not confident they just don't care what happens to other people cause their a jerk.
I agree. Many are like that - just hope that people realize soon enough, be it the person that's with them or he himself.
Agreed. I've always been strangely attracted to jerks. Especially when they're kind of cocky
I agree completely...
Confidence in any form is hot..
thanks :)
All the guys u chose in the pics are average looking so yeah, being arrogant did make them attractive to you
looks are subjective... I agree with you about all but shemar moore... he's actually pretty hot.
So who do YOU find attractive?
these indian men siddharth malhotra and hrithik roshan are way more handsome than any of those hollywood actors, indian men are just underrated.
and whom do i find attractive? as a straight man, out of western women it would be scarlett johannsen and sofia vergara the most, but i find deepika padukone and aishwarya rai much cuter
just searched up sidharth malhotra, and yeah he's attractive. But i don't really like the other guy tho.
Are you indian? That might explain some things - we're influenced by the people around us the most.
yes i am indian, siddharth malhotra is great, hrithik roshan i am surprised u didn't like him, he is considered a greek god looks wise
and yes, we are indeed influenced, why do u think people say indians are unattractive though i just showed you a few good looking ones, because the indians you see in hollywood are unattractive.
Power... as good looking woman i can totally be honest why, sometiems, i let myslef a luxury to behave like a total bitch and men still do whatever, to gain my affection.😜😈😂
as long as you know your limits xD
Lol, you mean to fuck you? Yea they will do that, to stay with a bitch? Not happening.
@genuinlysensitive "not happening", you are delusional? that's why im engaged, ok then... ok
What are you going on about?
So you're saying you're a bitch to your husband on purpose?
According to Internet.
According to a girl who uses the internet, yeah
No. This drama is only on internet.
Real life too :/
I mean yes. Girls get attracted to bad boys but on the Internet, we hear that it's 90% of the time that girls will go for ONLY bad boys, but in real life, they choose nice/shy/nerdy/average guys too. Yeah, bad boys score higher.
I never did say only "bad boys" win. It's just a bit of insight on WHY some women choose to be with them. Plus, (according to opinions here) many women despise them.
My opinion nor comments were "personal". Never said that "YOU said so" or "YOU said something wrong".
I think we're having misunderstandings and this convo isn't vigorous either. We should leave it like that :)
lool no no I never meant to be confrontational to you, either! X)
It's just that I'm getting so many notifications/arguments that im typing "in the zone" aha
anyway, thanks for the input :)
Cheers!
Love this. Well said.
aw thanks :)
They hide behind their computer online...
haha that too!
I dont think they are attractive at all. They can suck dicks too.
well you just see through them - which is a good thing :)
haha x)
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