How it Feels to Have Baby Fever

[zombiebabe]

Awwww babies <3 these little beings are so adorable...how resist seeing them without having a baby fever uh? :p

I would like to share how it feels like when am having one of these baby fevers :)

1.When I see a baby

I feel like "awwwwww he/she is too adorable <3 <3 !!! i want one"...

2. When i see a pregnant woman (or a pregnant couple)

It makes me feel like "I'd do anything to be like them rn" :'( ... just look at all that love^. And look at that cute round belly.

3. When I see baby accessories

Especially when am doing the groceries and I'm walking by the baby stuff section...I feel like "when will I buy these for my own baby/kids??? When??????????? "

4. Breastfeeding

That sharing of love looks so peaceful.

5. Sometimes during my cycle

It comes to mind like "I want a baby so bad right now" :'(

#BabyFever

I have baby fever very often...can't deny it.

GAGers...how often do you have it?

[Smmyskittles]

Have had it since 19. No kids yet and don't plan on it for another 5 years minimum.

I have it every time I think or see a child that's under the age of 8ish.

- When I see a pregnant woman, I want to rub her belly and put my ear against it. Trust me, I don't and don't ask.

I've rubbed 1 pregnant woman's belly and got to put my ear against it (around 2013). <3 She actually asked me if I would. lol, she was a close friend at the time.

- Honestly, when I see a baby under 18mos, I want to cry. It's stupid and I don't, but that's how I feel on the inside.
Full of friggin' hormones. lol Just usually excuse myself from the room.

* The baby stuff though.. Especially the tiny clothes. <3 Make me smile and melt my heart. Get all warm and tingly.

* During my cycle it's 50 times work. I remain logical about it. IT'S HARD AF too!

- But all in all, I want marriage and a solid, long relationship with someone before I *seriously* think about children.

[zombiebabe]

you're like me lol
but yea i'd want to get married before kids

[Hotsoup]

I'm 18 and want to have a baby when I turn 23 lol

[Smmyskittles]

@Hotsoup - I was the same way. When I was 18 I said "In 5 years". lol, now, I'm saying "in 4-5 years" XD I hope it actually works out for you.

[Smmyskittles]

Asker - I was happy to read this and see I wasn't/am not alone. Thought the fever would go away after like a year. haha, probably won't until after I have children.

[zombiebabe]

i think the fever will be over after you (or i) will actually have babies <3

[zombiebabe]

@Hotsoup oh man i am 22 already :(
no kids

[Hotsoup]

I want to be married first so I might have to wait a little bit longer than I'm expecting. Hope it works out for both of us.

[zombiebabe]

@Hotsoup hope so too

[Rogue2]

I actually did want to get married and have a family of my own since I was 17 and helped raise one. Then I gave up on the whole idea all together.

[zombiebabe]

oh why? :/

[Rogue2]

No luck. Last wonderful girl I dated was using me as a fill in until she got married. That kind of turned me off the whole thing.

[zombiebabe]

that's not cool.. hope you'll find love one day

[Livinglogical]

I understand really wanting one... but I don't undertand not having the sense to go 'it comes out of my where? AWW HELL NO'. I'm sorry but that shit is just crazy wrong. If I ever get baby fever I'll go''oh wait, I'm an actual person who isn't controlled by my hormones and can make rational decisions so I'm not going to risk my life to have a friggin baby'. Pregnancy and childbirth kills and injures so many people in this world and actually I would seriously question a mans love for me if he expected me to risk my health and life having one.

If children are really right for you, do the sensible thing and adopt, there are millions of children without mummies and daddies out there and they should be taken seriously, not just popped out because you find them adorable and then realising that you now have to spend the rest of your life peeing when you laugh.

[zombiebabe]

:o... :/

[crazy_eyes]

I 100% agree with you. Except that I don't want to have kids. Maybe a dog, but no kids.

[MaxPower123]

It's fine if you just want to adopt but their is nothing wrong about the way babies come out. It's natural way of life and it will always be this way. Everyone had to come out from womb one way or another.

There are many women unable to have children the traditional way you should consider them also.

[Livinglogical]

@MaxPower123 I do consider them... I consider them the luckiest people on the planet! Just because something is natural, doesn't mean you have to do it. Cancer is natural to.

[MaxPower123]

No one said they had to have a kid. Cancer is not natural causing abnormalities in the body.

[Anonymous]

The breastfeeding is not peaceful lol. it is nice, but it's also so difficult sometimes. The nice bits can make you ignore the bad bits though. I get baby fever so much too lol, I didn't used to but I do now. Even after I had a baby, a month later I was like aww I'm gonna have another one haha.
Anyway, you're 22, enjoy life before having a kid. You can't go a lot of places with a kid, and can't do a lot while they're young. Even small things like going for a bike ride, or just running quickly to the local shop to buy milk or something you will have to do the whole long drama of getting the kid ready etc... Going on holiday, meeting friends, everything. Just enjoy everything first, because it'll be a lot different when you have a kid.

[zombiebabe]

*takes note* ;) okay
its not for now tho... i still have to find someone and then get married :( but i guess i am too much of a dreamer

[Opinion Owner]

Na, it's not being a dreamer. Millions do it every year, why not you? You're only 22, you've got loads of time.

[zombiebabe]

yea but sometimes i feel like i am getting old (felt this way when i turned 22 this year)... and i have like this "fear" of ending up not married or without kids :'(

[Opinion Owner]

Na, you've really got double the life you've had so far. These days, I've read in loads of places, that women over 40 are having more babies than under 21s for the first time since ww2. Way more women are having babies later so that they'll have time to build a career and study before they have one.

[zombiebabe]

i wanna have kids before my 30s

[zombiebabe]

i have 8 years left! T_T

[Opinion Owner]

Everybody thinks that lol. Even when you're 25, 30 seems kinda old, but it's not that old when you get there. All my friends and I always said we had to have kids before 30, and now we're all there or approaching, we all agree now that at 30 there's still loads of time for everything, even having kids.

[zombiebabe]

;) ;)

[Fuentes]

Babies are not the business they're expensive talking 3K dropped the first 9 months Crib, Crib Mattress, baby designs, baby clothing, Bulk Diapers every month, baby wipes, baby bags, milk bottles, similac (unless you breast feed) baby toys and little jumpers to strengthen their legs, baby swingers, rocking chairs, baby bath set and soap for babies, little cabinets for all the clothes and binkys, socks and little hand gloves, bibs, hat's. Babies grow so this stuff is month after month one kid is good enough for me but imagine if i would have had more lol im so scared of having more now, but if you're completely financially secure go ahead lol but they're the sleepless nights and when u get sleep for a hour the baby is awake hungry, needs a change in diaper and is looking at you like " im not going back to bed" lol but i love my child but hey it's a fair warning

[zombiebabe]

i've been working in a daycare/nursery school before... it was so nice to take care of these little angels

[Fuentes]

Lol let the cost of daycare be another bill too haha but yeah it's good that you're good with kids they are the future but having them is hard too manage unless your fully financially secure

[Shawn58]

Lol told you

[zombiebabe]

@Shawn58 oh man

[JuicyBrain]

You have to be careful not to let emotions make your decisions and think really hard about what it all entails. Otherwise, babies are so cute and adorable. 😊
I have two nieces. One is 4months old and the other 4 years old and I can't be happier. I love them and treat them like my own. I get why yiu would want one. It's a lot of work though lol

[zombiebabe]

lols they're adorable!
but i understand what you mean here tho

[DoggyDude]

It's interesting to read about. Thanks for sharing that sense :).

I've never had it quite as strong as you describe. Though I think there's a quiet underpinning of wanting a family which varies the level of comfort at being single.

[zombiebabe]

thanks :)

[Phoenix98]

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So can I have it?

[zombiebabe]

lol can i have it?

[Phoenix98]

Well I can't grow children, unless cabbage patch kids become a real reality so can I have your baby?

[zombiebabe]

lols :p

[Phoenix98]

Lol.

[LittleSally]

Awww =)

I like babies, I love taking care of them, but I'm not sure I want a baby right now - I don't think I'm financially ready for it yet. xD

But yeah, babies are adorable for sure. =)

[zombiebabe]

i love babies too!!

[4465loveyou5577]

I want a baby sooooo badly now

i131.photobucket.com/.../MermaidMerbaby.jpg

[zombiebabe]

me tooo!!!

[Heera]

I've never found babies cute nor I wanted to ever be near one, but it's nice to know how other people feel about them. Hope you'll have a happy family when you'll be ready :)

[zombiebabe]

*cross fingers*

[Anonymous]

I don't get baby fever? Like sure they're cute but it doesn't make me want one of my own (I automatically think of all the not so nice things like midnight feedings/crying etc etc). But, maybe it's a woman thing (I think it is)?

[zombiebabe]

guys get it too

[Anonymous]

I used to get it alllll of the time! It's been years now though. I am done with the baby stage now :D

[Opinion Owner]

It started after I had my first and then lasted until we had our last.

[zombiebabe]

awwww :-D
how many kids do you have?

[Opinion Owner]

2 and through here-lol. They are 2 boys; 10 and 6 (as of 7/16). Having kids is the best thing ever but make sure it's with the right person <333

[zombiebabe]

awwww sweet

[Knucklehead]

Don't jump on the band wagon. If it's time and you're with the right man. It will happen.

[zombiebabe]

i know :(

[Tanfoxy]

Never that's awful congrats to the people who want babies but to me nope. Taking care of them is too much and annoying.

[zombiebabe]

to each their own

[Anonymous]

Had a baby by accident. Worst mistake of my life because i didn't want one.

But if you really want one it will be the Opposite.

[zombiebabe]

:o hope you take care of that baby

[Opinion Owner]

Don't worry i do.

[zombiebabe]

that's good then :)

[Opinion Owner]

Your 22. Your social media is probably pack full of people having babies. The mother of my daughter was 21 when she had the awfully stupid idea of getting pregnant.

Just think of this. All those girls having kids now will have hanging guts and stressed beyond anything they ever experienced. And you'll see them complaining about not experiencing life sooner or later.

[zombiebabe]

oh i don't use social media apart from GAG
and most of my childhood friends are married with kids already and it makes me feel like sh*t when they ask me if i'm married or have kids am like -_-''

[FakeName123]

What its like catching baby-fever:

https://cdn.meme.am/instances/250x250/23767639.jpg

[zombiebabe]

:/ :-!

[FakeName123]

It's funny cause it's true :P

[zombiebabe]

not cool bruh

[FakeName123]

I know, I know. You ain't one of the cool kids. But its all good. People still like you despite not benig cool.

[zombiebabe]

i know i am not cool :/

[FakeName123]

Its ok. Not everyone can be cool. Some - like you - just need to be satisfied with being cute.

[Decentguy]

that baby in the 2nd pic is soooooooooooooooo darn cute.

[zombiebabe]

i know right!

[Decentguy]

my sister had a baby 1 month ago and she's out of country i can't wait for her to visit my country so i can play with her baby all day :D

[zombiebabe]

awwwi hope you'll meet her soon

[Decentguy]

thanks :)

[John_Doesnt]

Women want the baby in the same sense a kid wants a puppy: you want the fun part, but none of the responsibility. And it's always up to daddy to take care of the bills, medical shots and messyness.

[zombiebabe]

nope.. only immature people would react this way... moms should make sure their kids are being healthy... giving them love and support... where did you get that idea where the dad takes care of everything uh? >:(

[John_Doesnt]

Dad takes care of everything money wise.

[zombiebabe]

no...

[i1T2daty]

I've been told that if men want to imagine the experience they should try to shit a bowling ball

[Shawn58]

Baby fever is a quick way to have money issues

[zombiebabe]

oh damn :(

[zombiebabe]

y u say that bro?

[Shawn58]

Because it is unless your rich or semi rich lmao

[zombiebabe]

people shouldn't be rich to have kids

[Shawn58]

They should at least have a good amount money tho, that shit is hard yo lol

[zombiebabe]

as long as a couple have the minimum its fine

[Shawn58]

Nope lol, nope you need more lmao

[zombiebabe]

i know people who have minimum money (not so much) and still have babies

[Shawn58]

Yea I do to and they say it's not so great and I believe lol

[Fuentes]

Babies are very expensive trust me

[zombiebabe]

@Fuentes :o

[Unit1]

I live in a family in moderate poverty. I have been underfed since in my beginning teens and it's still an issue to me (and people freaking wonder how I am weak and skinny like it's my fault). Because I am adult I keep looking for jobs but no success at all.
All the stuff, that demands money and I don't have them. Problems and money issues here and there.
A sure way to get someone depressed and chronically damaged.

Makes me wish to never be born in the first place.

[anonman32]

i hope if i have a girlfriend that she doesn't do sketchy things just to get a baby.

[zombiebabe]

what do you mean?

[anonman32]

if she starts catching the baby fever and she starts making holes in condoms or she stops taking the pill to try and get pregnant without me wanting it.

[zombiebabe]

oh :o in this case that's not a good thing to do tho... both of you should agree first

[anonman32]

yeah i agree. thats the best possible situation for the baby, to have two loving parents.

[zombiebabe]

very true