How to Know If a Girl Likes You?

[Unknown2232]

So guys, you might be wondering if your crush likes you or not. Yeah, we can be really complicated. Here are some signs that she may like you!

1) Her eyes are dilated

This happens for guys and girls. Our eyes dilate when we see something we like or to see in the dark.

2) She plays with her hair or fidgets

3) She try's to make you laugh

4) She looks at you from a distance without you noticing

When you notice, she may stare into your eyes or look away.

5) Dos she mirror your moves?

This goes for both genders. For example, you brush your hands through your hair, she will seconds after.

6) Do her friends look at you?

Any weird reaction when you and your crush are near each other can tell a lot.

7) Does she smile at you or look at you differently?

8 ) Does she talk to you/initiate conversation?

This isn't always the case. She could be shy.

9) She's near you a lot

Even if it's at a distance, she's near you.

10) Her friends talk to her about you or she talks to her friends about you

Not always the case. Either way, she's thinking about you.

Still not sure? Tell us in the comments!

To the girls, here is a myTake on how to find out if a guy likes you: How to tell if a guy likes you?

[MexicanBagpiper96]

I have a question. There's a girl at work. I posted a story about her a while back. I mentioned that sometimes we would make eye contact, and then immediately look away. Other times she would look at me and start to smile like she was going to say something to me, but me being the idiot I am I would look away because I didn't want to creep her out, so she would keep walking with what seemed like a look of disappointment. On one occasion, my boss and I were trying to fix something, and she walked by on her way out and kicked something in our work area, trying to get our attention. I joked that she shouldn't do that because stuff costs money, and started to walk out the door. She stopped and let me catch up to her, so we could talk. Last Friday, I was asked by my boss to go help out in her work area, her boss wasn't around, so I asked one of her teammates where they needed me. Before her teammate could answer, she told me she needed my help with her work, because the old dude helping her couldn't keep up with her. She is a very good worker, and rarely needs help. She didn't need the old guy's help, and she definetly didn't need mine. A few minutes later her boss showed up, and asked me to help out elsewhere, before I could say anything, she asked him why he was moving me and if it would be possible for me to help her out. Later that day, as I was walking out, I didn't catch up to her, but she gave me a really big smile before she walked out. I smiled back, but I didn't start to smile until I saw her do it. I'm pretty sure she's not into me, but I have some doubts after reading your post. Any chance you could weigh in? Sorry, about the length, I didn't mean to write you my autobiography.

[Nxtawm]

I think she is into you, cause she's actively seeking you out, trying to find opportunities to talk to you and smiles a lot around you. Unless I'm wrong and she's planning to kill you instead 😂😂😂 she probably has a crush on you

[MexicanBagpiper96]

@Nxtawm I doubt it, and if she was, then I blew it. I can't find any reason as to why she would be into me.

[Ineedhelp123456]

So my handball team and the girls handball team went to a tournament in Croatia. Wasn't expecting much or any attention from the girls, since I don't talk to them at all lol, but one day when I was laying on my bed 2 of them came in and started saying stuff like stop talking nonsense and shit like that, even though I don't talk to them lol. One of my friends came back and got them out of the room somehow and I thought that was a joke or something, but a few hours later one came back and started hitting me and telling me to stop talking nonsense again. I started running, she started chasing me, then she stopped and went off somewhere to my room. I come back my bag and my cap is gone. I get it back and run away to the city cause I really wanted to eat lol. Fast forward a few hours later I come back home slightly drunk and one girl shouts OH *my name*! then the girl that was hitting me shouted OH *my name in a cute way* WHERE WERE YOU LOVE? I ran off from them again and went to sleep. The next day everything was fine, we didn't talk again just some casual HI *my name* and giggling. And for the other days it was the same - no talking, just smiling when we see each other. Do they/the girl that was hitting me like me? Or is this some sort of a girls way of having fun?

[Nxtawm]

I think there are girls who are meaner to their crush (not in a hurtful way though but more of a teasing way) but even I'm confused, the female mind is complex! Though I'd get away, she seems a bit crazy

[gms202]

Just so you know, I've liked a guy for a really long time and i don't do most of what's on the list. I mean I've never even had a proper conversation with the guy and i like him like him. The most I've done is look at him and try to stand close to him in class when he's with his friends (that i am also friends with) not really talking. None of my friends know i like this guys because i for real like him. I only tell my friends about crushes that are purely physical and i don't intend on having a relationship with.

[windknowsmyname]

I just look the following:
How often she dont mind my company.
If she's willing to get know me.
Consistency in communication.
How much she trust me with information she provided.
If gets jealous if i interact with others.
she's open to flirting and sexual behavior.
And won't refuse a challenge.

[BleachyPeachyBoi]

This is mostly right, except for the part where they fail to make any physical or verbal contact with you causing you to be unaware of their interest in you which leads to you being a totally clueless bumhead who complains about how lonely he is. Other than that yeah, good list.

[Nxtawm]

I think some of the signs are wrong or only the most basic are written down. For example myself, even though I've never had a crush before but I would be more mean to him (tease him more) just my personality. Though some girls might not even talk to their crushes, some might get more clumsy around them and others are just more straightforward.

[Anonymous]

Both shy and forward girls have different approaches to this, but here is the common denominator:
1. She is within your proximity a lot.
2. She looks at you a lot.
3. She will be flustered at some point when she talks to you.
4. Her friends give you weird looks (if she even told anyone). Or they giggle.
5. She won't usually initiate the end of the conversation (unless if there is a really important matter she needs to attend to).

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just show them my penis and ask them to touch it... if they touch it, they like me.

[That2kKid21]

This is a great method. In my experience it works 50% of the time ALL the time.

[MexicanBagpiper96]

Yeah, that definitely won't get Human Resources to pay you a visit at work.

[WalterRadio]

She will have sex with you without being paid for it.

[AD240pCharlie]

Considering how many of my female friends fulfill more than half of these criteria, I don't think it's THAT reliable.

[Anonymous]

This is the most cliche/classic things you could say and are around to every website in the world.
Anything else?

[JellyDonutguy96]

well

no one ever tried to mirror my moves
or fidgeted or played with their hair around me

I guess I'm going to die alone

[Anon-ymous1]

Sure, SO complicated... eh. Anyway, yeah decent list I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Funny I just got 100 percent confirmation that I’m in the friend zone by noticing the girl was doing none of the above a few days ago.

[wayy11aa]

that's a basic and doesn't appeal to most girls.

[Hahfjshs]

50/50 always or 10/90

[LegateLanius]

Easy, they don't.

[Revolver_]

Interesting myTake