How to Know if a Girl You Like Truly Likes You

[Kentaiwan]

"She acts shy around me, gets fidgety around me, and sometimes glances at me while playing her hair, I think she likes me." Did you guys ever think of that?

No it is not 100% guaranteed she likes you.

Maybe what you feel or what you think is just your hallucination, or she just likes to do these things.

There are some practical ways to know whether she likes you.

1. Texting

If a girl likes you, and you text her, she will text you back as soon as she can. Everyone gets excited

when your crush texts you right? If she doesn't text you back within 30 minutes, it is possible she

has a boyfriend, or she has no interest in you.

2. Stay with her

If she truly likes you, she will do something indirectly or implicitly to let you know. Girls know that if

a guy doesn't like her he won't sit next to her. But if she does nothing or doesn't drop any hint while

you're sitting next to her. Sorry you can back off.

3. Observe her

It is the most helpful way in my eighteen-year life. You don't need to ask her like "Do you have

boyfriend?" You will feel extremely disappointed if she says "Yes I have a boyfriend." ( Believe me I had this experience today.) Observing her can help you avoid direct rejection.

Tip: You can ask her "Did you ever have a crush on someone?"

Try to know who she usually hangs out with, and facial expression is important. If she has a

boyfriend, her face shows self-confidence, and maybe you feel that it's not easy to approach her.

What if she likes me although she has a boyfriend? Should I like her or back off?

Don't like her, just back off because this kind of relationship is unstable.

[Heartcrusher]

Being shy is always miss interpreted as liking, this is the reason why lots of guys that I don’t even pay attention to would think that I like them.
When a guy likes a girl it’s always a booby trap for them
Example; if I make eye contact, I LIKE HIM! can’t stop looking at him. If I avoid eye contact I LIKE HIM! I’m just to shy to look.
Please no
Although I can say that asking about a crush is a clever idea. If a girl does have a crush, she’ll start talking about him and if she doesn’t currently have one she wouldn’t talk about anyone. Heck, if she’s interested then she might ask about your crushes.

[stillagoodgirl]

Lol there's no winning!

My male classmates think I want them because I'm friendly towards most. I was shy at first because they're new but now I make eye contact easily.
Some act weird around me after a while of getting to know me but once they see that I'm friendly to other guys they act normal again.

Now when I like a guy he probably won't even suspect it. If anything he'll think that I despise him

[Kentaiwan]

I cannot agree with you more.

[aaaae2e]

I thought I was the only one *phew* becasue most guys think I like them and it irritates me so much! im shy and most guys whom i have encountered think i have a crush on them ew.

[jennifer_bloom]

I agree that a girl being nervous around you does not mean he likes you.

For me there are 3 or 4 different types of attraction I feel for somebody
1. I might want them physically but not love them or esteem them
2. I might esteem them but not want a relationship
3. I might be intensely nervous or shy around somebody but not love them or care about them
4. I might love and care about them and want to help them and be loyal to them but not want sexual contact with them

[VIVANT]

Yes there are very many ways if experiencing desire and it doesn’t necessarily mean sex or a rejationship or either.

[Onlythisone]

Naaa when I like someone I'm an asshole. I'll be polite with people I have no interest in but the second they spark any interest I want to figure out where all their buttons are, see if they are capable of being real, all the nitty gritty stuff. It's the fastest way to weed people out that can't deal with life.

[MrNameless]

And how's that working for you?

[Onlythisone]

@MrNameless pretty well, my last relationship lasted a decade. And I don't have to deal with these sissy boys with daddy issues.

[Guy2809]

I believe that the easiest way to know if a girl likes youbis aske her out. There is no going around it, the rest is just assumption s. You ask her out, if she accepts you act as a man who wants to be with her on the date, see how she reacts. You are polite but get close to her, if she is comfortable, she likes you. If she is not, then she's just been friendly or not as interested yet.

[WildButterfly]

This is so true! I'm bad at taking hints lol. I don't assume a guy is interested in me until he ask me out.

[Anonymous]

Am l the only one who just strikes up a conversation to get to know her? Or is it automatically assumed that since I'm physically attracted, I'm gonna ask her out on a date? Is it weird that I've bought women drinks, talked for a while, lost interest because of one thing or another, and excused myself?

[aaaae2e]

so if a guy likes me, he will sit next to me? hmm...
honestly its really hard for me to know if a guy likes me...

[Kentaiwan]

Try to observe him when he is around you.

[aaaae2e]

Like what? observe what? it seems normal and he doesn't talk to me.

[Kentaiwan]

I don't talk to girl I like, so you cannot tell he doesn't like you.

But it's true, it is hard for both guy and girl to know.

You can write what you saw and what you think in detail, or I cannot tell what the guy thinks.

[aaaae2e]

what if he gives me weird looks?

[aaaae2e]

A guy from class he's in his 20s. He's married but i think he's attractive. I would stare at him when he talks and he likes the attention i give him because, ever since, he started to dress up well and wears cute clothes. he never mentioned his wife or his kid. i was talking to my friend about a class we're taking this summer and he came to us and said that he will take it too. he even sat next to me during a group conversation and picked my group just to be in it. He's taken tho and has a kid, what do u think? I might see him again next week... I really like him so is he being friendly or likes me?

[Kentaiwan]

If a guy likes you or shows interest in you, he won't give you a weird look.

[Kentaiwan]

I think he is just friendly to you. After all he is married.

[Anonymous]

It’s a problem that you even have to make a take like this. If women were big girls and had big girl communication skills, we wouldn’t have to decipher this shit.

[VIVANT]

If you say I’m interested in you , directly, you will get a direct response. Can’t expect clarity without giving it.

[Opinion Owner]

@VIVANT yeah, maybe you’re an anamoly. And if you are, then I didn’t meant to offend you. But the overwhelming majority of women are not like that

[VIVANT]

Hmm.. do you think most guys are direct? I believe you are , but do you think it’s so common? Maybe a few are and they are loudest? Bc it seens everyone thinks everyone plays games and only about 39% claim they want to.

I’m not challenging you I’m asking 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

@VIVANT Yeah, being totally honest, I do believe guys are direct. And I don’t feel like you’re challenging me. I actually appreciate respectful discourse

[VIVANT]

Good I’m glad 🙂

I can say I have experienced direct guys but directceonen too. Maybe women are not durectceith men bc they are told men don’t like it?

I’d say 39% if women or men who have been interested in me were direct and it was not bc I made it easy bc I was not interested. I don’t mean I was a jerk I just mean their advance was nit based on being sure I am interested.

I have also had difficulty with men nit being direct. Never had an issue with women but I have not been interested in any but one and only maybe I’m not sure.. and it dies not count bc I never said anything.

I like someone now who I’m 99% sure feels similar but he’s being difficult. And I’ve been very direct. He’s not being difficult bc he’s not interested , he’s just difficult. But obviously not everyone can be simple. I’m just not sure if it’s relly a question if gender but rather when we are interested in people we pay more attention to their behavior. If you don’t date guys you’d only have what they say

[VIVANT]

To go on. If I went by what people say everyone “else” is not direct 🙂

I don’t claim you have experienced indirect women but you might have similar experience if you date guys?

[NewYear-NewMe]

What's the difference between interest and just being friendly?

[Kentaiwan]

The eyes are different, you can feel that.
Just being friendly doesn't include making too much eye contact.
But if a girl shows interest in you, her eyes will tell you something.

[NewYear-NewMe]

Like I catch her looking at me?

[Kentaiwan]

This is kind of a sign, but it's not 100% accurate. If a girl really likes you, she will do something to let you know, not really complicated.

[NewYear-NewMe]

I have no idea what that is like

[Kentaiwan]

Many guys don't have that idea either. Like me, I felt that a girl l liked had interest in me, but eventually I found out she already has a boyfriend before I started to like her.
So just wait and observe the girl's behavior.

[NewYear-NewMe]

Everytime I think she's interested, she's just being friendly. I'm the guy that girl's see as just friendly.

[Kentaiwan]

Meet the right person at the right place and at the right time, just wait.

[NewYear-NewMe]

I can't just wait for her to come to me, i'm a guy after all.

[Kentaiwan]

Then you can go talk to her and see what she will do, watch her reaction, and determine your next step.

[NewYear-NewMe]

I guess maybe.

[LegateLanius]

I already am aware that women don't like me like that, ever.

[mssimest23]

Good job on this take.

[dothejohnwall97]

women are too complicated bro

[Anonymous]

Simple... girls never truly like you...

[Liisjak]

Speaking from inexperience.

[Revolver_]

Every girl truly likes me

[Kentaiwan]

How lucky you are!! Every girl I know is taken, or doesn't have any feeling for me.

[Revolver_]

Thank you

[Emma_240302]

Exposed *.*

[Anonymous]

Interesting